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Date de parution
01 avril 2013
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EAN13
9781927483527
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English
Publié par
Date de parution
01 avril 2013
Nombre de lectures
0
EAN13
9781927483527
Langue
English
Tim Cork’s career spans thirty years in the hi-tech, commercial real estate, and communications industries, where he held progressively senior positions, both nationally and internationally, with the companies Xerox, Regus, SkyDome, TCS Telecom, and NEXCareer. He has logged over 83,000 hours in leadership roles. Tim is on many boards and spends countless hours giving to people in the corporate world and in his community.
Tim is currently the President of Straight A’s Inc., an international provider of Leadership Development, Coaching, and Sales Training. He is sought after as a speaker and has been published in numerous magazines and papers. Called the “networking and leadership guru” by the Globe and Mail and Breakfast Television and the “career guru” by the Toronto Star , he educates, entertains, and shares his wisdom with thousands every year.
Tim lives in Toronto with his wife and two children. He uses his name as an acronym for his purpose in life – to T ouch, I nspire, and M ove people to act on their passions and goals. His first book, Tapping the Iceberg , is an international bestseller that focuses on getting Straight A’s (Attitude, Aptitude, and Action) in life through unleashing one’s possibilities.
For speaking, training, coaching, and making a huge impact on you and your organization, Tim and his team may be reached at www.timcork.com
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The Gift of You, Leadership, and Net working giving
TIM CORK
Author of the bestselling TAPPING THE ICEBERG
Copyright © 2013 by Tim Cork
All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced or transmitted in any form or by any means, electronic or mechanical, including photocopying, recording, or any information storage and retrieval system, without permission in writing from the publisher.
Published in 2013 by BPS Books Toronto and New York www.bpsbooks.com A division of Bastian Publishing Services Ltd.
Paperback ISBN 978-1-927483-45-9 ePDF ISBN 978-1-927483-51-0 ePub ISBN 978-1-927483-52-7
Cataloguing-in-Publication Data available from Library and Archives Canada.
Cover: Phil Marinucci/Gnibel Graphics: Phil Marinucci Text design and typesetting: Daniel Crack, Kinetics Design, kdbooks.ca
To my sister, Kacey, my hero. You continue to T ouch, I nspire, and M ove me every day … We miss you!
CONTENTS
Acknowledgments
Introduction
1 THE GIFT OF BEING THE BEST YOU
1 Take Care of You First
2 With Acceptance Comes Freedom
3 You Are Not Your Past
4 How Valuable Are You?
5 Have the Courage to Be You
6 Don’t Buy in to Limiting Beliefs
7 Rescript Your Internal Echo
8 Stay Out of Negative Storms
9 Use Powerful Words
10 Say Farewell to “Can’t”
11 My Sister and the Power of Courage
12 Do You Have Anything to Declare?
13 Face Fear Head On
14 Live with Poise
15 Move Outside Your Comfort Zone
16 Take the Right Risks
17 Embrace Change
18 Expect It to Happen and It Will
19 Build Your Platform
20 Do What You Love
21 Build on Your Strengths
22 Hang with the Eagles
23 Fail Forward
24 Energize
25 Always Be Prepared
26 Be Remarkable
27 Master Excellence
28 Create a Breakthrough Mindset
29 Celebrate Your Greatest Successes
30 Seek Your Own Approval
31 Show Approval to Others
32 Today Is Your Day … Push Repeat
33 Create Great Habits
34 Develop a Daily Disciplines List
35 Follow the Rule of 4 to 8
36 Set Clear, Concise Goals
37 Take Inventory Often
38 Take Inventory of Your Time
39 Invest Your Time Wisely
40 Seize the Day – Every Day
41 Physical Fitness, Your Way
42 Stay Open to New Ideas
43 Use Silence to Transcend and Soar
44 Tap the Power of Humility
45 Tap the Power of Vulnerability
46 Increase Your Capacity to Receive
47 My Mom and the Power of Giving
48 Leave Footprints – Your Legacy
49 Keep a Date with Destiny
50 Are You Fun(ny)?
51 Capture the Moments
52 Pursue the Simple Pleasures
53 Live Brilliantly
2 THE GIFT OF LEADERSHIP
GREAT LEADERS:
1 Lead Themselves
2 Brand Themselves
3 Know Themselves
4 Brand Their Company
5 Derive Power from Vision
6 Derive Victory from Failure
7 Welcome Conflict
8 Rise to the Challenge
9 Pay the Price
10 Are Paid to Make Decisions
11 Make Things Happen
12 Ask Great Questions
13 Create Customers for Life
14 Ensure Great Customer Service
15 Create a Great Culture
16 Model Integrity
17 Have Conviction
18 Impact Others
19 Are Consistent
20 Are Intense
21 Are Patient
22 Are Enthusiastic
23 Set Expectations Up Front
24 Set Clear Expectations
25 Set High Standards
26 Foster Collaboration
27 Develop Good Management Habits
28 Create Great Teams
29 Create a “We” Mentality
30 Understand the Power of One Word
31 Are Great Teachers
32 Elicit Greatness
33 Can Lead Friends
34 Have Great Leadership Attributes and Habits
3 NETGIVING
Introduction: What Is Netgiving?
1 Ask Good Questions
2 Focus on Others
3 Listen
4 Speak with Your Body
5 Remember and Respect Names
6 Focus on People’s Purpose
7 Craft Your Elevator Speech
8 Set Up a Great Hook
9 Make It Relevant
10 Pay Attention to Attention Spans
11 Condense Your Elevator Speech
12 Check How You’re Feeling About You
13 Build Your Brand
14 Build Your Verbal and Virtual Brand(s)
15 Decrease Your Degrees of Separation
16 Be Genuine
17 Do Your Homework
18 Mind What You Wear
19 Make Great First and Lasting Impressions
20 Be on Time
21 Begin with Compliments
22 Ask Permission
23 Take Notes
24 Follow Up Immediately
25 Write Thank-you Cards
26 Take Action
27 Keep in Touch
28 Go “Live”
29 Be Politely Persistent
30 Make 8 Before 8:00 and 5 After 5:00
31 Work the 80/20 Rule
32 Work Your Closing Ratio
33 Prospect, Get Face Time, and Follow Up
34 Use Both Voicemail and Email
35 Never Assume Anything
36 Never Call Yourself Out
37 Make Contact to Receive Contact
38 Move Outside Your Comfort Zone
39 Ask Who Else You Should Meet
40 Introduce Yourself Often
41 Be the Host
42 Search for Common Ground
43 Focus on Quality … and Quantity
44 Rise Up the Corporate Ladder
45 Recognize People
46 Make People Deposits
47 Let People Give to You
48 Don’t Keep Score
49 Pay It Forward
50 Give Away Books
51 Become an Expert
52 Join Relevant Associations and Boards
53 Volunteer
54 Join Mastermind Networking Groups
55 Go Beyond Your Industry and Boundaries
56 Define Your Passion
57 Combine Netgiving with Your Passion
58 Apply the Straight A’s Formula
59 Build a Dream Team
60 Don’t Rule People Out
61 Make It Mutually Beneficial
62 Smile, Laugh, and Play
63 Focus on 4 to 8 Actions
64 Build, and Maintain, Your Reputation
65 Act as Though You Belong (You Do)
66 Be Confident, Not Arrogant
67 Take a Compound Interest Approach
68 Always Be Positive
69 Develop Wingmen and Wingwomen
70 Give to Receive
71 Teach Your Kids to Netgive
72 Engage and Be Engaged
73 Detect and Respect Agendas
74 Get People to Open Up
75 Be Likable
76 Speak to Groups
A Few Last Words
Acknowledgments
M Y thanks …
To my wife, Suzy: you are my rock, my best friend, mentor, coach, and teacher. I love you! Thank you for being you every day. You complete me …
To my children, Geoff and Stephanie: what a gift to spend time with you as you helped make my book a reality. Both of you have made huge contributions with your editing, ideas, and wisdom. I love you, guys.
To Phil Marinucci, for your brilliant ideas, illustrations, front cover design, and creative flair.
To Don Bastian and team at BPS Books, for putting it all together and publishing my second book with you. Here’s to another bestseller …
And a big thank you to all the people in the military who serve our country. You make a difference every day!
My thanks, as well, to all the others who have contributed to this book, my life, and my writing: my mom, my brothers, Mike and David, my sister, Kacey, and my father-in-law George; as well as Dr. Jean Hurteau, Serge Reynaud, Jon and Karyn Levy, Henri Audet, Mario Gosselin, Andy Lennox, John Corley, Blake Goldring, Vi Konkle, Greg Belton, Colin Kinnear, Taylor Statten, Bob Courteau, Lucie Martin, Daniel and Gabriel Dumont, Steven Sage, Mark McKoy, Dr. Elaine Chin, Mardi Walker, Muhammad Yunus, David Sharpe, Jon Baggett, Christaine Ferguson, James Bates, and Guy Burry.
Introduction
We make a living by what we get. We make a life by what we give.
— Winston Churchill
D O you have the courage to live your life the way you want? It takes a lot to have enough confidence to do it your way instead of just falling into what has been set out for you by others. Regardless of who you are or what you want, do you have the courage to live your life to your full potential? Do