Train Up That Child

Roscoe F Perry

Description

Train Up That Child is a book designed to encourage parents and those involved with the development of the children of this day. Parenting is one of the hardest jobs that exist. We all need help and encouragement as we sow into the lives of children. This book will inspire you to truly consider what you plant into the minds and hearts of children, therefore, it should be read, discussed, but most importantly— applied!

If you are serious about the process of training up children, you can help to develop a generation of individuals who respect themselves, as well as others. Train Up That Child calls us to go back to the basics! It will inspire action, change, and deliberate effort. In order to produce young people with vision and a clear understanding of their purpose in life, you have to see this not just as a job, but a mission. If they are strong and sharp, then our society will reflect the same characteristics. We can be known as the generation that took the task of parenting and developing our youth seriously and indeed—changed a generation. Will you do your part?

Sujets

• Religion
• Christianisme
• Santé et bien-être
• Développement personnel
• Vie de famille
• Parentalité et Éducation des Enfants
• développement personnel
• Personal Growth
• Self-help
• Parentalité
• Parentalité
• Parentalité

Informations

• Publié par: eBookIt.com
• Date de parution: 04 juin 2014
• Nombre de lectures: 0
• EAN13: 9781939748737
• Langue: English
• Poids de l'ouvrage: 1 Mo

Extrait

Copyright © 2014 by Roscoe F. Perry M.DIV
 
All rights reserved. No part of this book may be used, reproduced, stored in a retrieval system, or transmitted in any form whatsoever — including electronic, photocopy, recording — without prior written permission from the author, except in the case of brief quotations embodied in critical articles or reviews.
 
All scripture quotations, unless otherwise indicated, are taken from the Holy Bible, King James Version , Copyright © 1982 by Thomas Nelson, Inc.
 
 
First Edition
 
ISBN-13: 978-1-9397-4873-7
 
 
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Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed in this book are solely those of the authors and other contributors. These views and opinions do not necessarily represent those of Certa Resources LLC, dba Certa Publishing.
Acknowledgements
I want to take this time to thank God for this vision and for Him allowing me to see it come to fruition. Also, I would like to thank two friends who did the first editing for me, Mrs. Karen Mckinney Holley and Mrs. Patricia Conley; they saw my work when it was in really raw and rough shape. Thanks for the continued love and support from my beloved church family, First Mt. Carmel in Appling, GA. I have learned so much from these great people. Also, special thanks to my family which I was trained in from birth. Also, a special thank you to my love, my dear wife Ann as well as my daughter Christiana. They have both been a constant love and support for me. I am truly blessed to have each of you in my life.
I truly hope that those who read this book will be helped and inspired to develop strong and positive families, for the training of children is one of the foundational tasks of developing a society that pleases God.
Introduction
T his book came from my head, but mostly from my heart. It comes as a result of seeing so much in our society that seems to be deteriorating. I am drawing from my experiences working with young people for the past 27 years, as director of a youth convention where we travelled all over Georgia in rural and urban areas, working both with youth in the church and youth who have never attended church, and volunteering in a youth detention center. Additionally, I have gained first-hand knowledge through having the great pleasure and blessings of raising my own daughter.
As I look back over time, something has gone wrong. In my opinion, we can and must change our station. I maintain that children are meant to be loved; and part of loving them is to train, mold, and develop them into becoming responsible adults. As with any goal worth achieving, there is a technique, a method, a system. This book is an attempt to address the highly important call of all parents to nurture and develop the children they are blessed to have. It will take work, but it can and must be done!
Chapter 1
What Shapes My Beliefs?
Proverbs 22:6
A nyone who has an opinion about an issue has to have a belief that shapes and supports that idea. In my case, it has been my experience in working with young people, counseling parents, and relying on the strong counsel of Scripture. Each has played a major part in shaping the way I feel as to the best method in which to develop a productive and respectful child.
In most cases, parents will agree that what they want most from their child is for that child to obey. They want that child to do what he or she is told. Whether it is an immediate command while the child is in front of the parents or behavior expected when the child is out of their sight, parents want the child to obey. That child might not make all A’s in school, but that child can follow the rules. Parents are not expecting too much in this situation. The Bible is clear about how to develop an obedient child: “Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.” (Prov. 22:6).
This text implies that there is a responsibility for each parent to do the work of training the child. This training is not the responsibility of the government, the school teacher, or the church. If you have a child in this world, it is your primary job, your duty , to train that child to go in a certain direction. To “train” means to mold, to assist in development. That is what a good parent does. The parent molds and trains the child to hold a certain belief pattern. Teaching this behavior is not a part-time job and cannot be done just on the weekends. Training does not start at the age of two; no, training starts at day one, at the point of conception. While that baby is in the womb, you should be thinking and preparing for your child’s arrival and your charge to develop a great addition to this society. This endeavor is one of the more important, if not the greatest, tasks of any human. We have to begin to see our children as a proud project that lasts for the rest of our lives, because we never finish being a parent; we just move to another stage.
In my experience, I have come across children who were called “good” and those who were called “bad.” What is important to understand is that in both cases, these children had an adult who contributed to either label. The fact is, a “good” child is not an accident, but neither is a “bad” child. I realize that those titles are relative. I know that a “good” or “bad” child is not someone specific. I also know that no parent likes to see his or her lovely child labeled as “bad.” However, if your three-year-old child does nothing you ask or if you are afraid of the child to whom you gave birth, what other label can be applied?
To be honest, lack of discipline is one of the main problems. I see parents not correcting inappropriate behavior and activity when it happens, so the child thinks that the behavior is all right. The child continues the behavior because no one wants to say, “Houston, we have a problem.” What happens in many cases is that when the problem is overlooked, the behavior gets worse. At this point, the child is getting older and harder to mold. The next thing you know, the same person who would not say, “Houston, we have a problem” will say, “I can’t do anything with this child.” The parent is afraid of his or her own child. Far too many times, I have witnessed these behaviors, and I feel the situation seems to be getting worse. Some say the problem may be that parents are getting younger. I am not sure if that is the reason, because some young parents do quite well training their little ones. Then there are older parents who have children that are out of control; therefore you cannot just say the problem is for young parents only.