Finding Beautiful

Rebecca Friedlander

Description

Americans spend millions on beauty products, weight-loss programs, and age-defying medical interventions each year. We set impossible standards and feel bad about ourselves when we don't reach them. Is beauty truly that difficult to attain? Or could it be that our idea of what's beautiful is simply too narrow?With engaging personal stories and dramatic before-and-after photography, filmmaker Rebecca Friedlander uncovers the true beauty of 12 women from various ethnicities and backgrounds, empowering us to shatter the lies of rejection, doubt, and low self-esteem. Utilizing compelling biblical truth and questions for personal reflection, Friedlander helps us identify our own personal battlegrounds, celebrate our uniqueness, and embrace God's definition of beautiful.Anyone who loves a great makeover story or who wants to explore their unique identity will love this eye-opening book. Let's stop letting the world define beauty and start being a voice that tells the world what true beauty actually looks like.

Informations

• Publié par: Baker Publishing Group
• Date de parution: 30 avril 2019
• Nombre de lectures: 0
• EAN13: 9781493417650
• Langue: English
• Poids de l'ouvrage: 10 Mo

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Cover
Endorsements
“If you are like me, you love to be given a front-row seat, a backstage pass, or that red-carpet invitation! I had the honor of seeing this book, and the TV series that inspired it, blossom from a seed to an amazing, beautiful adventure because its very talented creator, Rebecca, took a few weeks in her travels to edit and do a few photo shoots from my home. Not only did Rebecca find beauty all over the world, she teamed with God to create beauty wherever she traveled! This book will create beauty in your life and will give you the tips and tools to paint a path of beauty wherever you travel too!”
Pam Farrel , bestselling author of Men Are Like Waffles— Women Are Like Spaghetti and 7 Simple Skills for Every Woman
“‘God is the Author of beautiful stories.’ We want that to be true, and it is. It is Rebecca’s heart that you’d discover your own gifts and value through her powerful images of beautifully diverse women and breathtaking stories, shattering the lies of the enemy with the turn of each page in her new book—and I believe you will.”
Andi Andrew , author, speaker, copastor of Liberty Church, and founder of She Is Free
“ Finding Beautiful is a wonderful book full of intriguing stories that reveal the miracle of the Father’s love for His daughters. As my friend Rebecca takes you on a journey around the world, she unearths truths about real, genuine beauty that point us toward the redeeming love of the Father. You will love these stories and find new ways to show your unique beauty to those you love and make your mark on the world with the internal attributes that truly make a woman beautiful. Thank you, Rebecca, for sharing your amazing journey with us and pointing us always toward the beauty of a life led by none other than the Author of beauty Himself, Jesus.”
Jennifer Strickland , author of Beautiful Lies , Girl Perfect , and More Beautiful Than You Know ; former professional model; speaker; and founder of URMore . org
“From California to Paris, Rebecca Friedlander has searched for stories of true beauty. Not stories of glitz and glamour but stories of women who know their identity in Christ and have let their beauty overflow to those around them. Pick up this book to redefine your own beauty and learn how to share it with others.”
Shannon Ethridge , MA, life/relationship coach, international speaker, and author of the million-copy bestselling Every Woman’s Battle series
“Transformation is God’s idea. But Rebecca Friedlander has shown with clarity that the will to change is ours alone. With before-and-after pictures that speak a thousand words, compelling testimonies, and thought-provoking questions that will ignite your own transformation, Finding Beautiful is unlike any other book I’ve ever seen. Can I be next? Will you?”
Laura Harris Smith , CNC; author, Seeing the Voice of God , The 30-Day Faith Detox , The Healthy Living Handbook , and Get Well Soon ; host, theTHREE
Title Page
Copyright Page
© 2019 by Rebecca Friedlander
Published by Baker Books
a division of Baker Publishing Group
PO Box 6287, Grand Rapids, MI 49516-6287
www.bakerbooks.com
Ebook edition created 2019
All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored in a retrieval system, or transmitted in any form or by any means—for example, electronic, photocopy, recording—without the prior written permission of the publisher. The only exception is brief quotations in printed reviews.
Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data is on file at the Library of Congress, Washington, DC.
ISBN 978-1-4934-1765-0
Unless otherwise indicated, Scripture quotations are from the New King James Version®. Copyright © 1982 by Thomas Nelson. Used by permission. All rights reserved.
Scripture quotations labeled ESV are from The Holy Bible, English Standard Version® (ESV®), copyright © 2001 by Crossway, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved. ESV Text Edition: 2016
Scripture quotations labeled NLT are from the Holy Bible , New Living Translation, copyright © 1996, 2004, 2007, 2013, 2015 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.
Scripture quotations labeled TLB are from The Living Bible, copyright © 1971. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.
Unless otherwise indicated, all photos © Rebecca Friedlander.
The author is represented by the William K. Jensen Literary Agency.
Dedication
To my friend and mentor Pam Farrel, a beautiful soul who encouraged my dreams. Thank you for following hard after Jesus and investing your life into women around the world.
Contents
Cover 1
Endorsements 2
Title Page 3
Copyright Page 4
Dedication 5
Introduction 9
1. Beautiful Security 15
2. Beautiful Daughter 31
3. Beautiful Adventure 45
4. Beautiful Already 59
5. Beautiful Worth 75
6. Beautiful Trust 91
7. Beautiful Exchange 109
8. Beautiful Warrior 125
9. Beautiful Vulnerability 143
10. Beautiful Dreams 159
11. Beautiful Creation 175
12. Beautiful Invitation 191
Conclusion 207
Acknowledgments 215
About the Author 217
Back Ads 219
Back Cover 222
Introduction
What would it look like to pack your bags and travel the world in search of true beauty? If you wanted to document authentic beauty, would you capture fashion models on runways, nature’s finest mountaintops, a mother’s arms, or intriguing corners of the globe that most people ignore? I did it all in a nine-month adventure from Paris to Los Angeles, styling makeovers and photo shoots with fascinating women who shared powerful discoveries about passion, faith, and beauty. I found that many lies women mistakenly believe about their identity are often similar, regardless of their background or nationality, and that each radiant truth also has a common theme. This book is your personal ticket to adventure and a daring quest to discover your identity as a woman of God! Let’s travel together—meeting new friends, styling great makeovers, and learning what God’s Word teaches about timeless beauty.
As we start this adventure, let me explain what motivated my journey. As a film director, I was hired to produce a documentary that pulled back the sleek veneer of today’s fashion industry. According to the New York Post , a survey conducted of over three thousand models from every major agency concluded that 94 percent are “woefully underweight.” * Eating disorders and competition abound as the world’s “most beautiful” vie for the next job and strive for the unattainable mirage of perfection. Even when a model gets a job, she is simply considered a performer for the photographer. In fact, the word for “model” in French is le mannequin , meaning “mannequin.” Like an expendable droid in a sci-fi movie, she is easily replaced by the next girl waiting to fill her shoes. One former model told me through her tears, “I felt like a piece of meat in a butcher’s shop window . . . just a piece of flesh to be haggled over. Was this really all there was to life?”
This curious quip about meat resurfaced when I was shooting a scene for the film near the Ponte Vecchio, the “Old Bridge” spanning the Arno River, which winds its way through Florence, Italy. Over a thousand years ago, this bridge was lined with shops of local butchers, who used the bridge for a meat market. After cutting the choice parts from the meat, they threw the leftover, unwanted carcasses into the Arno River below, until the water reeked with the smell of rotting flesh. In 1593, a magistrate named Medici Grand Duke of Tuscany decided to shut down the meat market. Then he reopened the shops to house jewelers and sellers of gold. Today those gold shops are still open, and when they close for the evening, the shop doors are cleverly designed to look like the tops of treasure chests.
Standing on the bridge that day, I realized the Old Bridge carries a deeper story about beauty. It is really our story—yours and mine—and it carries the cure for the world’s obsession with perfection. The “meat market” of this world desires to use us and throw us away, quickly tossing us overboard when we can’t keep up with the stressful quest for performance and praise. How many times do we end up feeling awkwardly unwanted because we can’t meet the expectations of life, others, or even ourselves? It is a battle we can’t win! However, there is a King who sees beauty where the world sees none. One word from Him transforms the human heart from a peddler of flesh into a keeper of gold.

Photo of Rebecca Friedlander in Italy, courtesy of Peter Friedlander.
Soon after shooting the documentary in Italy, I had an idea. As a freelance filmmaker with a passion for adventure, I felt a little quiver of excitement stir in my heart. What if I created a TV series that documented authentic beauty and Christ’s transforming work in women around the world? I had no budget and no financial backing, and I knew the series would mean a lot of work. So I did what I normally do when my creative juices start flowing: I started to pray.
“God,” I said, making a simple, honest request, “please show me Your plan.” Sometimes our Father speaks so unmistakably that even in the bustle of our thoughts and emotions, we recognize His voice as clearly as a sheep knows its shepherd. This was one of those moments.
“This is not just your plan,” the Father said. “It’s My plan too.”
The next day a friend who owned a charity thrift shop called me out of the blue. “Come to our warehouse and pick out whatever you want. I want to give to your ministry.” I jumped on her offer!
Dazed, I emerged from her building with armloads of ball gowns and props. A few days later, I crammed my car full of tripods, lenses, makeup, and curling wands and started my first trek from Nashville to the West Coast. Then I called every connection I could dream up and sched