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ThingsNOTto 7 sayto yourEx (If you want them back) by Justin Sinclair Seven Things NOT To Say To Your Ex Why Do We React So Differently........ ................ ..............2 1. I Miss You So Much! If You Don’t Come Back.....4 2. This Is Your Fault..................................................................6 3. To Much Talking In General...........................................7 4. Any Kind of Lie About How Great Your Doing....9 5. Want to Do It One Last Time.....................................10 6. I Hate You................ .................................... .........................11 7. I Love You.............................................................................12 HowToGetExBack BONUS Click here to join HowToGetExBack.com and get your EX back - guaranteed! www.HowToGetExBack.com 1 Why do we react so diferently Why do we react so diferently to things our partners say compared to what friends and acquaintances say to us? When your pals are talking to you, you tend to skim the surface of their words. But when you’re in a relationship, the strong emotions between you drive you to analyze every word and ind implications that your partner might not have even intended. When you’re broken up, the emotional stakes have never been higher. Every word you exchange is packed with feeling, and has the bother to make both of you melt, or ly into an uncontrollable rage.

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• Publié par: idawells04
• Publié le: 11 avril 2016
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• Langue: English

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ThingsNOTto 7  say to your Ex (If you want them back)

by Justin Sinclair

Seven Things NOT To Say To Your Ex

Wy Do We React So Dîerenty ...................................... 2 1. I Mîss You So Muc! I You Don’t Come Back... .. 4 2. Tîs Is Your Faut .................................................................. 6 3. To Muc Takîng In Genera ........................................... 7 4. Any Kînd o Lîe About How Great Your Doîng .... 9 5. Want to Do It One Last Tîme ..................................... 10 6. I Hate You ............................................................................. 11 7. I Love You ............................................................................. 12

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Why do we react so diferently

Wy do we react so dîferenty to tîngs our partners say compared to wat rîends and acquaîntances say to us? Wen your pas are takîng to you, you tend to skîm te surace o teîr words.

But wen you’re în a reatîonsîp, te strong emotîons between you drîve you to anayze every word and ind împîcatîons tat your partner mîgt not ave even întended.

Wen you’re broken up, te emotîona stakes ave never been îger. Every word you excange îs packed wît eeîng, and as te boter to make bot o you met, or ly înto an uncontroabe rage. In my How To Get Ex Back course, I sow peope ow to ind te precîse words tey need to say to get teîr exes back. But wat about te opposîte? Wat about tose tîngs you soud never, ever, ever say î you want to wîn teîr earts agaîn?

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Let me tak you troug some o tose tîngs rîgt now. You may crînge a îtte and tînk, “o god, I saîd tose tîngs, tey’ never take me back”.

DON’T PANIC! It’s stî possîbe to wîn teîr earts back, and my course tes you exacty ow to do tat. But pease, make yourse a soemn promîse rîgt now. Raîse your rîgt and and repeat ater me: “I swear tat rom tîs moment ort, I sa never, ever say tese tîngs to my ex.”

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1.miss you so much. IF you I  don’t come back, I will…

hîs îs sometîng tat mîgt seem justîied în your ead. Someone îs urtîng you, so you soud just ask tem to stop urtîng you. And wy not îustrate tat by sowîng te consequences o teîr actîons.

Remember toug tat you’ve got a goa ere: to get your ex back. hîs îs not epîng în any way sape or orm. Peope can treaten teîr exes wît a kînds o tîng. You mîgt say “I you don’t come back, I wî never ove agaîn” or “I wî aways be oney”. And tat mîgt ee true and yes, ît ees good to say tat out oud to your ex. But a tey ear îs “I’m urtîng and ît’s your aut”. Even î you tînk you’re sayîng ît în a nîce or romantîc way, you’re stî pîîng tîs woe eap o emotîona pressure on tem, and tat’s not goîng to make tem come back. It’s goîng to drîve tem away. You mîgt take a dîferent approac, îke “I you don’t come back, I wî keep tryîng to cange you’re mînd. I’ never gîve up.” Now, tîs mîgt just be ow you ee or you mîgt întend ît as a sow o your devotîon and ove.

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You know wat tey’re earîng? hey ear tîs: CLANG! hat’s te sound o a prîson door beîng sammed sut. hey’re trapped and caustropobîc. hey’re not tînkîng o ow muc tey ove you, tey’re panîckîng over ow to get te e away rom you. he worst one o a îs to treaten to arm yourse în some way î tey don’t come back. hîs îs a terrîbe sîtuatîon to put anyone în, and your ex wî now be worrîed – egîtîmatey - about your webeîng. Never, ever say tîs. I you ave saîd ît, ofer your sîncerest apoogîes and make ît cear tat tey ave notîng to worry about.

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2.This is your Fault.

Sometîmes ît’s reay ard to keep tîs one în, especîay wen ît îs actuay teîr aut. You probaby aready know tat poîntîng ingers îsn’t goîng to ep wîn your ex back, but ets stop and take a ook at exacty wy tîs îs suc a ousy strategy. In my How To Get Ex Back course, I expaîn sometîng you may not reaîze just yet. Your reatîonsîp reay îs over and gone or good now. But tat’s okay, because you get to buîd a brand-new, muc better reatîonsîp wît your ex.

Part o tat process îs eventuay goîng to învove takîng about wat went wrong te irst tîme and ow you can avoîd ît tîs tîme. But tat’s muc, muc urter down te îne.

I you’re stî at te breakup stage and you’re takîng about bame, ten you’re not buîdîng a new reatîonsîp, you’re reîvîng te od one, and tat’s not goîng to make anyone a în ove.

Imagîne î you went to a car deaersîp and te saesman, înstead o teîng you about a new car, just kept takîng about ow awu your od car was. hat woud be a pretty ousy saes tecnîque, rîgt? Yet tat’s pretty muc wat you’re doîng by dîggîng up od, paînu memorîes agaîn and agaîn.

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3.Too much talking in general

A îtte wîe back, I mentîoned ow sometîmes your words can sound îke te eavy cang o a prîson door swîngîng sut. It’s easy to make your ex ee îke tat at tîs stage o te reatîonsîp, î you don’t coose your words careuy. Even î you are careu and consîderate în wat you say, tey mîgt be eeîng îke tey’re îvîng în Acatraz î you sîmpy say too muc. You know wat I mean? You text tem în te mornîng to say “Hey, ope you ave a great day!” hen you text tem agaîn at work to ask ow teîr jobs îs goîng. hen you send tem a poto o your unc. hen you ask tem wat tey’re up to ater, and te tem a your pans în detaî. hen you basîcay îvebog your evenîng or tem, gîvîng every detaî îke “Hmmm, tînkîng o takîng a sower”. hen one ina message to wîs tem peasant dreams, beore te woe process starts agaîn în te mornîng.

Even î notîng you say îs în any way controversîa, you’re absoutey smoterîng tem î you keep bombardîng tem îke tîs.

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I you guys are broken up, ten tey’re goîng to need a îtte space to tînk about tîngs and get teîr emotîons în order. hey can’t do tat wen you’re orever yappîng at tem. You know tat od sayîng about, “î you ove sometîng, set ît ree”? here’s so muc trut în tat sayîng. You don’t ave to et your ex go entîrey. But ît’s essentîa tat you gîve tem space and avoîd makîng tem ee trapped.

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4.Any kind oF lie about how  great you’re doing

“Just been kayakîng wît Beyonce, now I’m of or my bînd date!” hose wo’ve read my How To Get Ex Back course wî know tat ît’s vîta to make yourse aurîng and înterestîng, and maybe even înspîre a îtte jeaousy î you want to get tat specîa person back. However, tîs needs to be done în a very specîic way, as outîned în my course. Wat you soud never do îs just make up a bunc o stuf about ow awesome your îe îs, în te ope tat tey’ come runnîng back to you. Reason number one: you mîgt get caugt out and î you do, you wî ook patetîc. here’s aso te eement o desperatîon to ît a. So you’re at an awesome party and avîng te tîme o your îe, but you stopped at 3am to te your ex? A tat means îs tat no matter ow muc un you’re avîng, you’re stî tînkîng o tem.

And wy soud you îe anyway? Wy pretend to be avîng a good tîme? Wy not actuay get out tere and reconnect wît te word? Trust me, I know tat a broken eart can destroy your appetîte or îe, but î you can ind te drîve to get back out tere and take your pace în te word, you won’t ave to îe about enjoyîng your îe.

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5.Want to do it one last time?

Sometîmes you mîgt mîss your ex or pysîca as we as emotîona reasons. hat’s ine, congratuatîons î you guys ave a great sexua cemîstry.

he temptatîon to ave one ast padde în te canoe mîgt be overwemîng at tîmes, but ît’s rarey a good îdea. I te pysîca sîde îs a you care about, ten you reay need to ask yourse î ît’s not just tîme you moved on.

No matter wat your preerences, sex wît someone you ove îs aways better tan sex wît someone you don’t reay care about.

I you do want tat emotîona reatîonsîp back, ten avîng sex agaîn îs very rîsky. here’s a cance o eeîng used and dîrty aterwards, especîay î tere’s stî no sîgn o a reatîonsîp. And te întensîty o sex makes ît arder to navîgate tose emotîons and get to a pace were you two are comortabe togeter agaîn.

I you’re tînkîng o usîng sex as a bargaînîng too to get tem to tak to you agaîn, pease don’t. Don’t put out în te ope tat tey’ start takîng to you.

he ony way to get onest, emotîonay vaîd conver- satîons wît your ex îs to make a meanîngu connectîon. It’s ard to do tat naked.

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