Winners and Losers

Ujjwal Patni Dr.

Description

* 25 Mantras to earn Goodwill and achieve success. * If you want to win, you will have to leave some people today and now only, know whom.* List of 15 commitments to make this year highly successful and happy.* A man reared up a dog and his child. Did not give anything to the dog and gave everything to his child. Child after growing up, abandoned the parent while the dog is still with him.* Whenever you find an excuse for not doing something, you actually deceive your ownself and not somebody else.* Marketing one's ownself, broadcasting one's merits and strengths is vital for anyone, don't care if others call you oversmart or highly ambitious.* Imagining a life devoid of any tension is the biggest tension in itself.* If you want to save your energy for big achievements, my 'mantra' for the same is : 'Don't lake Load'.

Informations

• Publié par: Diamond Books
• Date de parution: 10 septembre 2020
• Nombre de lectures: 0
• EAN13: 9788128828553
• Langue: English

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WINNERS AND LOSERS
 
This book, I am sure, would immensely benefit to all as it did to me. I am very impressed by it.
 
Dr. KIRAN BEDI
 
Renowned author, Magsaysay Award winner, IPS
 
“Jeet ya Haar - Raho Taiyaar” is an excellent manual for a successful and happy living. I fully agree with what has been written by the author.
 
JOGINDER SINGH
 
Well known writer & Ex-Director in CBI
 
(For full comments. refer page no. 206)
WINNERS AND LOSERS
 
Dr. Ujjwal Patni
B.D.S., M.B.A., M.A., C.C.P., C.H.R.
Guinness World Record Holder (Lifecraft Team) Kamal Patra Award Winner
 
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WINNERS AND LOSERS
By – Dr. Ujjwal Patni
M OM I L OVE Y OU
I dedicate this book to my loving mother. She supported and brought me up after sad demise of my father in very early age. She made me what I am today, she gave me the capability to bring positive changes in others lives. She also taught me how to take responsibilities and execute them. I am very unfortunate because I never got a chance to give moments of happiness to my mom. When I became self dependent, she turned ill and left the world.
My only request to all my readers is “Take care of your parents, love them & support them unconditionally. Just see, how fast you achieve your dreams.

 
S TRAIGHT & B ITTER T RUTH
After going through the first edition of this book, I received lot many letters and e-mails from the readers. Most of them whole-heartedly praised the creation. I pray to god that he gives me enough serenity to restrict these heartfelt praises from getting into my head. Some of the readers advised me to avoid being so ‘hitting’ in my writings. I am at a loss to understand how to lessen the bitterness in my writings since I always ensure that I write nothing but ‘truth’ and truth - as they say is always bitter.
If you have to strike a nail in the wall, you will need a hammer, pillows won’t serve the purpose. In order to fight critical illness, bitter medicines and painful injection have to be taken. Just in the same fashion, if i really wish to bring positive changes in the life of my readers, I have to be straight and candid. Moreover, in the present fast moving life scenario, light and sweet talks are not able to penetrate the skin of most people.
Therefore, I have decided to write straight statements till I continue to write. You have all the right to reject my views since it is not necessary that both of us agree in totality on each and every issue. If my writing seems good to you, try to follow them but in case these hurt you, then please pardon me for the same.
Contents Motivators and inspirational books ! Failure does not mean the end of life Boon or bane Companionship - leave or choose Stress - the breath of life !!! Market your own self No time - your cliche too Energy + direction: key to success Decide your priorities in life Free yourself from your past God loves those who toil As you see, so is the world Something extra within you? Positive v/s Negative minded people Who surrounds you? How would be my epitaph? Startling story of japanese Avoid ego and show-off Three basic rules of nanugiri Paradigm of success Goal/Aim/Ambition No enthusiasm no life Five rules of happy life Choose excuses or success Worthy authors plz forgive me Attitude Give what u want in return Do you trust your ownself Do u also cry for opportunity My most favourite mantra Family comes first Want results, stay focussed Six vital rules Hare and the tortoise 25 ways to a hike in goodwill Some promises to be fulfilled What is your USP Divorce these sentences Others don’t encourage Workshop & Seminar Dr. Ujjwal Patni - Introduction
Motivators And Inspirational Books Both Are Useless!
Dear Readers,
Innumerable books on personality development and life management have turned the whole subject quite mundane and banal. People feel all this is quite bookish. They think such books are mere philosophical treatises and they don’t help achieve much. Many theories of such books bear no logical testimony in practical life.
Intelligent people also say that the publisher earns by selling books, writers by royalty and the shop of wisdom keeps working fine .
Almost 100% I agree with you that no motivational guru can change anyone’s life. No book can untangle a person’s hassles and complications. No stories of moral science can direct anyone. No advice can rectify a wrong habit. And nobody as yet has turned a millionaire by reading a book because the most significant agent in the process of gaining laurels is the person who reads that book and not the book itself or any mentor or teacher!! If a reader doesn’t want to change, and wants to live with his shortcomings and failures, then there’s nothing that the book or the mentor can do.
If the reader doesn’t want to solve his problem, wants to be in an uncomfortable situation, wants to get more entangled in hassles, then there’s nothing that the book can do. If the reader sticks to his faulty habits, knowing fully well that a change in that habit would change his life for the better, then what the book can do?
No reader can become a millionaire or a successful person just by reading a book, as the book is not an ATM Machine where you press a button and voila!! there’s the money coming out!!! All that the book can do is to direct you to knowing the sources of earning money and the hurdles that will come in the way. Until and unless you step out of your comfortable bed and slog and sweat it out, nothing is going to change.
Friends, if you intend to travel to some place, then you need to choose the appropriate train. You have to get the reser-vation done and board the right train at the scheduled time and place. You also have to take care that you don’t get down before reaching the destination. Without proper planning and efforts, not even a short distance travel is possible. Even if you are provided with all the basic apparatus, you still have to reach the station and board the train.
Similarly, you will find many such theories and thoughts in this book that will compel you to think and to speculate. But a positive and desirable change is possible only if you work with efficient planning and put in dedicated efforts on a particular thought.
A positive and meaningful thought has the power to bring about drastic reformation in the life of a reader who puts it in practice. More important than commencing the work is the de-termination and doggedness to achieve the destination. Any in-complete effort done half-heartedly and unenthusiastically would land you nowhere.
This book is the menu card of a reception, accept what you like and reject what you don’t. Do not have an overdose of the contents else you would suffer from indigestion. If you attend a reception with full stomach, how is the host to be blamed for the gluttony that follows?
If you want to relish this book whole-heartedly, then cast off the “I know everything - attitude”. Open the windows of the mind and let my thoughts enter. Our mind is like a parachute, it works best when open. It is seen often that even highly inspirational thoughts are unable to stir and shake the complacency of people because they simply refuse to have an open mind, without any cobwebs.
Some intellectuals term these revolutionary thoughts as theoretical stuff, rumours, cliches, and discard them as meaningless. They make the achievements and struggles of the heroes seem quite ordinary If you want to start the process of learning, then you have to shed this attitude. Because it is not important that you know something, what really matters is how much you ‘act’ on them.

Anger destroys relationships, everyone knows, but still…..
An illegal activity can put you in trouble, but still…..
Driving at break neck speed can cause accidents, people know, but still…..
Early to bed and early to rise is extremely beneficial, but still…..
Womanizing is a vice, everyone knows, but still…..
No one carries his wealth after death, everyone knows, but still…..
Cigarette, tobacco, liquor, are life-threatening, but still…..
Likewise, there are thousands of things that we know but we never care for them, do not practice them and ultimately pay the price. What is more important? Just knowing it, or implementing it in a practical way? A person who can’t implement because he’s not aware of it is called ignorant, but a person who knows all, still neglects it, is certainly a fool. Choose your category., ignorant, fool, or wise. I cannot claim that you would be successful immediately after reading this book, but yes, you would be definitely compelled to think and rethink.
If the thought process begins to roll, automatically the learning process will begin. I can show you the way, tell what is right and what is wrong, but ultimately its you who will have to take the initiative. It will be your decision to pick the right or the wrong.
A powerful thought turned such a student to a doctor who had failed in two subjects in class 11 th and could hardly pass. Another powerful thought turned that doctor into a successful personality development trainer and a speech guru. Another important thought made the trainer a multilingual writer, whose books began getting published worldwide. Today he is 35, a product of all these thoughts. If an average student like me can be instigated by thoughts and achieve splendid success, then believe me, you too can do it. There is only one condition, let the thoughts enter your mind and without applying much wisdom & logics of your own, get sincerely in putting them into practice.
My sincere thanks to my lovely wife Rimpal, son Abhigyan & family members to be with me all the time. This book is a gift to the most beautiful thing happened to me, “Kiranya” my little darling , my lovely daughter who came