Just Give Me a Little Piece of Quiet

Lorilee Craker

Description

Most moms with young children struggle to find a little peace and quiet for themselves in the midst of their hectic days, and setting aside time to spend with God can be even harder. They need devotions that fit their busy schedules and meet them where they are. Lorilee Craker's short readings are just right for these moms. She lends her engaging writing style to personal stories that moms will find encouraging, often funny, and oh-so-familiar. Each reflection is related to a biblical truth and bookended by a verse at the beginning and at the end. Just Give Me a Little Piece of Quiet invites moms to retreat from the day's pressures and be refreshed for tomorrow's possibilities.

Sujets

• Philosophie et théologie

Informations

• Publié par: Baker Publishing Group
• Date de parution: 01 juillet 2011
• Nombre de lectures: 0
• EAN13: 9781441232571
• Langue: English

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© 2005 by Lorilee Craker
Published by Revell
a division of Baker Publishing Group
P.O. Box 6287, Grand Rapids, MI 49516-6287
www.revellbooks.com
New MOPS edition published 2011
ISBN 978-0-8007-5996-4
E-book edition created 2011
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ISBN 978-1-4412-3257-1
Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data is on file at the Library of Congress, Washington, DC.
Unless otherwise indicated, Scripture is taken from the Holy Bible, New International Version®. NIV®. Copyright © 1973, 1978, 1984 by Biblica, Inc.™ Used by permission of Zondervan. All rights reserved worldwide. www.zondervan.com
Scripture marked Message is taken from The Message by Eugene H. Peterson, copyright © 1993, 1994, 1995, 2000, 2001, 2002. Used by permission of NavPress Publishing Group. All rights reserved.
Scripture marked NASB is taken from the New American Standard Bible®, Copyright © 1960, 1962, 1963, 1968, 1971, 1972, 1973, 1975, 1977, 1995 by the Lockman Foundation. Used by permission.
Scripture marked NKJV is taken from the New King James Version. Copyright © 1982 by Thomas Nelson, Inc. Used by permission. All rights reserved.
Scripture marked NLT is taken from the Holy Bible , New Living Translation, copyright © 1996. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., Wheaton, Illinois 60189. All rights reserved.
Scripture marked RSV is taken from the Revised Standard Version of the Bible, copyright 1952 [2nd edition, 1971] by the Division of Christian Education of the National Council of the Churches of Christ in The United States of America. Used by permission. All rights reserved.
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To George and Pat Vanderlaan,
for taking us under your wings and
enfolding us so generously into your family.
We love you.
acknowledgments
My abiding thanks to the following people for support, encouragement, fine-tuning, stories, and friendship:
Friends: Bonnie Anderson, Carla Klassen, Nancy Rubin, Stephanie Nelson, Lisa Freire, Becky Wertz Walker, Rachel Arnold, Mary Jo Haab, and Sheri Rodriguez.
Friend/Writers: Laura Jensen Walker, Lisa Bergren, Julie Barnhill, Tracy Groot, Jen Abbas, Julie Johnson, and Beth Lagerborg.
Relatives: Abe and Linda Reimer, Ken and Linda Craker, Dan and Tina Reimer, Mike and Jodi Connell, and Lorraine and Tracy Bush.
Baker Book House types: Dwight Baker, Mary Wenger, and Paula Gibson. Special thanks to the following: To Twila Bennett, for a decade of friendship, your savvy marketing mind, and lots of enthusiasm! To Jennifer Leep, for your “light” editing, your graceful style, and for being excited about this little book.
To Ann Byle, without whose constant encouragement and bizarre sense of humor I would surely be bereft.
And especially to Doyle, who carried so much of the parenting and household stuff while I was writing this book, and my sons, Jonah and Ezra, who must have thought their mother lived in the basement there for a while! I love all three of you.
foreword
Finally, I’d put the baby down for bed, but when the dryer buzzer beeped, I hadn’t even enough time to get down the hall, let alone snatch a few quiet minutes for myself after a day of perpetual motion.
Carpool, work, cooking, blowing bubbles on the patio, snack, pulling every book off the shelf before reading one, talking about things that start with the letter G, catching up with my husband, and now the dryer reminding me of the clothes that needed attention.
Kids, husband, work, the cat, preschool teachers, girlfriends. Shoot, even the appliances demand a piece of our days. Moms just do and do and do.
But finding time to develop our mom core is essential to developing resilience. Why is resilience so important? Resilient moms have the ability to adjust to and recover from change and misfortune because they know they’re important and valuable to someone who cares for them. They understand that there is meaning to life that is bigger and greater than “me” and “now”. Resilient moms are far more likely to raise resilient kids.
Lorilee Craker knows the reality of finding a few minutes of quiet in the middle of the “do and do and do” days of early mothering. In less than five minutes Craker offers spiritual refreshment, humorous anecdotes and encouragement, reminding moms that God’s there with us throughout these crazy days. Through God’s word, stories and tips from her own busy mothering days, Lorilee guides moms in discovering anew how much God loves and values us. She helps us look beyond the daily “dos” to see God’s greater plan and purpose.
Open the pages of this delightful devotional designed just for moms and enjoy a few refreshing minutes with God. The demands of the day won’t disappear, but you will have more resilience to meet them as they come. Those few minutes will help you be a better mom who makes a better world.
Shelly Radic
author, Momology: A Mom’s Guide to Shaping Great Kids
introduction
Recently I was at an airport gate with my two sons, having heard the disturbing news that our flight would be delayed by an hour or more. My heart sank. Flying with toddlers is just plain stressful, and my particular tot—with his will of iron ore and his strong dislike of sitting still—was at that juncture jumping on my last nerve. All the clever little plane toys I had packed had been checked already, and all I wanted to do was get on the plane—our last leg of a long day’s journey—and fly home.
You know how, as moms, we kind of “budget” our energy and patience for whatever time frame we’re dealing with? I had calculated about two hours more of travel time until I could hand my darling cherubs over to their doting dad, who would be waiting at the appointed time at the airport in Grand Rapids. My stamina budget was set at two hours, not three or four, and I was sure my estimated energy expenditures would dry up long before the blessed sight of Gerald R. Ford International Airport.
“Can you believe this?” A cute blond mom of two rolled her eyes as we shared our misery. “Yeah, this is real nice,” I agreed, my maternal instincts taut against the possibility that my turbo tot could—and would—dart out at any second, possibly right in front of one of those scary airport golf carts zooming around the terminal.
Without really discussing it, we two waylaid traveling clans hunkered down and waited out the delay together. Snacks were procured or dug out of bags, and the six of us sat cross-legged on the airport floor having a picnic of sorts. The mom and I chatted about our kids—her girl and my oldest were the same age, and her boy and my little guy were close; the perils of flying with kids; weight loss; preschool; favorite movies; and everything else under the sun. (I must admit, when her travel-weary three-year-old started choking his big sister, my tension started to unravel. Isn’t that an awful thing to admit? Somehow, watching other kids behave badly was almost refreshing after untangling my own children’s snarls all day long.) Evidently even put-together moms like my new acquaintance, Mrs. California, had times when their children were out of control—in public!
Then this wonderful woman suddenly produced a portable DVD player from her bag and popped in a Dora the Explorer video. The two little boys lay down on their tummies, heads in hands, and watched the cartoon. My older son, Jonah, taught his new West Coast pal—a very pretty six-year-old, whom he didn’t even mind losing to—how to play Go Fish. Savvy Mommy and I were actually free to have some girl talk. And so it was that my little family passed a very enjoyable hour in the airport terminal. When the gate attendant announced that the bird that had flown into the airplane’s engines had been extracted and the plane was cleared to board, I was almost disappointed we didn’t have more time together.
What does this little episode have to do with the book you hold in your hands? It illustrates the vital need for moms to connect with each other, to have down time to relax a bit and “re-create” themselves. I definitely was re-created by the gift of that experience. I have no doubt God sent that mom to me—and me to her—at a critical moment when we were about to lose it.
God is full of gifts for us moms. One of those gifts is time—when we take it—to revive the spiritual, gifted, beautiful woman inside that meat-cutting, fight-refereeing, sleep-deprived chick our kids refer to as “Hey, Mom.” With each “mini-retreat,” you will be able to step off the mommy treadmill for a little while, get outside your wipe-a-nose workday, and gain perspective, encouragement, and rejuvenation. You’ll find readings here about adoption, mommy body image, baby names, friendship with other moms—even sex! (Now, if you’ve forgotten what that is, perhaps it’ll come back to you!)
Some of these readings are serious and reflective, but hopefully many of them will get you to crack a grin. Maybe you’ll even experience the kind of “been-there-glad-I’m-not-there-right-now” kind of refreshment I got from the whole choking incident! Yes, in me and my mommy-in-the-trenches stories, you will discover a real mother, warts and all, who loves her kids like crazy but also makes mistakes. I wish and pray that you will come away from this book with a sense of connection to another mom and to the part of you possibly buried under the good work of mothering. Most of all, though, I hope you are pointed, over and over again, to the one who loves you lavishly, pours out his wisdom and grace to cover every situation, and wants so much to give you a little piece of quiet.
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