Reflections on Meditation: A Guide for Beginners

Puff PhD Dr. Robert Ph.D.

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For anyone interested in learning to meditate but not sure how to begin, comes this book from psychologist and meditation expert Dr. Robert Puff, contributing writer for Psychology Today and a practicing meditator himself for over thirty years. Youll learn the value of meditation for physical and mental health, several different types of non-religious meditation, detailed instructions on how to practice each, and answers to all the questions asked by beginners. Think of it as base camp for starting your personal journey to enlightenment.

Sujets

• Philosophie et théologie
• Mind

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• Publié par: eBookIt.com
• Date de parution: 09 septembre 2011
• Nombre de lectures: 0
• EAN13: 9781456605056
• Langue: English

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Reflections on Meditation: A Guide for Beginners
By
Dr. Robert Puff, Ph.D.


Dr. Robert Puff, Ph.D.
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1 The Value of Meditation
Meditation has been around for almost as long as human history. At its core, meditation is a technique that helps us quiet our minds. I’m sure you’ve noticed, throughout the day, all the repetitive thoughts that tend to course through your mind. I call it mind chatter. It’s sort of like a commentary on life. Sometimes we ignore it, while other times we pay attention to these commentaries. We stop, reflect, and focus on them. We think about the past or we think about what might be in the future. All this thinking, all this noise in our minds, keeps us from being silent and present with what is in the moment. We miss so much of what’s going on in the world because we constantly have this mind chatter, spoiling our appreciation for what’s happening in the now.
What meditation can do is bring us to the silence, to the present. Meditation is a technique for quieting the mind, shutting down the mind chatter so that we can be still and one-hundred-percent present with the now. The hope is that as you learn to meditate you can transfer the gift of meditation, of being totally present to what is, to your daily life. If you can implement this, you will find you’ll have a much more blissful, peaceful, and happier life.
What we do in meditation is focus on one thing. Often it’s our breathing, a mantra, or a prayer word. You will find that your mind becomes quiet, because you are focusing on just one thing. As you focus, your mind will become more and more still until you reach a point where it’s basically silent. Thoughts may gently arise, but they will go away quickly, because you are learning to be totally in touch with the present.
That is the beauty of meditation, to bring us completely into the moment. In time it helps us grow a silent mind. In practicing the skills of meditation, we gradually transform into a whole, happy individual. Meditation is incredibly beneficial for both the physical and spiritual aspects of our being. It helps us become a happier, more peaceful person who no longer misses out on what’s happening around us. Without the overshadowing mind chatter, the peace and happiness that are our essential nature emerge.
Consider making meditation a daily activity. Embrace the art of meditation to become a healthier, happier individual. Allow meditation to bring you into the moment and experience the now.
2 How to Meditate
There are many ways to meditate. Because meditation has been around for so long, a wide variety of meditation systems are available.
The first technique I will introduce is simple and easy to use. It’s effective for both those who are new to meditation and those who have been meditating for years. This technique is popular all over the world. You will find it a very easy way to enter into meditation.
The key to meditation and why it works so well is that it literally changes the wave patterns in our brains. It’s based on a system of focus. All day long our minds are having thoughts and ideas. We are seldom attentive to one thought or idea at a time. We mentally bounce all over the place and rarely focus on one thing for very long. Some people refer to this mental jumping around as “monkey mind.” What meditation does is to quiet the mind, still it, so it doesn’t need to bounce all over the place.
What we do is create a rhythm, a pattern the mind can follow. When we do that, the brain waves start to slow down. We become more peaceful and relaxed.
In this first technique, we utilize a mantra that “follows the breath.” Most forms of meditation are based on following the breath. When we pay attention to the breath (“follow” it), both the mind and our breathing slow down. Some people find it hard to do this, though. Their mind bounces around so much that they forget to focus on their breathing. That’s why the first technique I will teach you adds something to the breath-observing technique. I call this first technique the “I am peaceful” meditation.
The “I am peaceful” meditation involves breathing in while mentally saying “I am,” then mentally saying “peaceful” as you breathe out. Your mind may wander, but you’ll find that if you direct your mind to go back to that phrase, you will begin to stay more focused on your breath. Do not strain or force your attention on the words or on your breathing. Just gently redirect your mind to the phrase and to your breathing any time you notice your attention has wandered off.
Begin the session with a few deep breaths. Then begin thinking the phrase, and just let yourself breathe normally. Don’t try to control the rate of your breathing, whether it’s deep or shallow. Let it be whatever the body wants it to be. The deeper you go in consciousness, the shallower the breath will typically become. Indian master yogis in advanced states of meditation have been found to stop breathing completely for extended periods of time, so don’t be concerned if it seems your breathing has almost stopped for a little while. This happens because the body is in such a deep state of rest and stillness that breathing, for a time, is hardly needed. Be assured: the body is perfectly capable of resuming deeper breathing whenever it so desires and will take breaths as it needs to. It’s all a very natural process, and you will feel rested and energized when you come out of it.
Now a word about coming out. It’s a good idea not to jump up quickly after meditation. This would be as jarring as jumping quickly out of bed after a very deep sleep. Take about three minutes to come back to a normal waking-state of consciousness. During this time, you can move around a little to let your body know it’s time to prepare for activity. Or, if you’re sleepy, you can just lie down and fall asleep.
As your mind slows down in meditation, you will begin to feel peaceful. If your mind wanders, don’t be critical of yourself; simply go back to your mantra: “I am peaceful.” With time, as you continue this practice, you will find it easier and easier to quiet the mind and to remain in the quietness. Even if your mind wanders, you will find that you still feel the effects of the meditation. It takes time and patience to meditate each day. With practice, it becomes increasingly easier to stay focused on your mantra and to follow your breath.
You will eventually find that you can enter the world of meditation quite easily. Find yourself a comfortable place to relax. Sit up and keep your spine straight (back support is fine if you need it). Don’t worry about fidgeting, but if you can stay still, it’s better. Meditation is about being present and relaxed. If you remain gentle with yourself and don’t become harsh when your mind does not stay focused, you’ll find that you progressively get better at easily and quickly falling into meditation.
3 Breath Meditation
Now I’d like to share with you my favorite form of meditation, called “breath meditation.” I believe it is one of the most powerful, yet one of the easiest, meditations to learn.
Before we begin, let’s talk a bit about the mind. The mind is made up of wave patterns. When we think, it causes wave patterns to occur in the brain. There are four main types of brain waves. The pattern we are normally in when awake and thinking is called “beta wave” or “beta state.” When we are dropping off to sleep and the mind begins to quiet, that is “alpha state.” When we are asleep or quietly meditating, that is “theta state.” The deepest state of sleep or of meditation (where there is no body awareness) is called “delta state.”
The goal in meditation is to get you to the theta/delta stage. I have found that the breath meditation technique is one of the most effective ways to get to the deeper levels of meditation and still the mind. Most people who are new to meditation and are trying a variety of ways to meditate will vacillate between the beta and alpha states in their initial practice. These stages of meditation are relaxing and a wonderful experience, but as with all things in life, the more you practice, the better you will get. Eventually you will desire to quiet the mind at the theta/delta levels and will go to the deeper realms of meditation to achieve this stage.
Now let’s talk about this effective and helpful way to quiet the mind, called “breath meditation.” It can also be the most challenging way, because although it’s simplistic, it is not always easy to do. It is easy to learn but sometimes difficult to practice.
In this form of meditation, you simply “follow your breath.” Just observe your breathing with no mantra, no prayer word, just simple and quiet noticing of the breath. How it works is that you sit up straight in a quiet, comfortable place with your feet on the floor or legs crossed. Begin by taking a few deep breaths. Then allow yourself to breathe normally, without concern whether the breath is becoming deeper, more shallow, or staying the same. (Any of these things can happen in correctly performed meditation.) As you sit there, watch or take notice of your breath. Breathe in, breathe out, breathe in, and breathe out. You can breathe in through your mouth or your nose, it doesn’t matter. The only thing that matters is letting your attention be with your breath.
If something distracts you, simply come b