ThingsNOTto 7 sayto yourEx (If you want them back) by Justin Sinclair Seven Things NOT To Say To Your Ex Why Do We React So Differently........ ................ ..............2 1. I Miss You So Much! If You Don’t Come Back.....4 2. This Is Your Fault..................................................................6 3. To Much Talking In General...........................................7 4. Any Kind of Lie About How Great Your Doing....9 5. Want to Do It One Last Time.....................................10 6. I Hate You................ .................................... .........................11 7. I Love You.............................................................................12 HowToGetExBack BONUS Click here to join HowToGetExBack.com and get your EX back - guaranteed! www.HowToGetExBack.com 1 Why do we react so diferently Why do we react so diferently to things our partners say compared to what friends and acquaintances say to us? When your pals are talking to you, you tend to skim the surface of their words. But when you’re in a relationship, the strong emotions between you drive you to analyze every word and ind implications that your partner might not have even intended. When you’re broken up, the emotional stakes have never been higher. Every word you exchange is packed with feeling, and has the bother to make both of you melt, or ly into an uncontrollable rage.
ThingsNOTto 7 say to your Ex(If you want them back)
by Justin Sinclair
Seven Things NOT To Say To Your Ex
Wy Do We React So Dîerenty......................................2 1. I Mîss You So Muc! I You Don’t Come Back.....4 2. Tîs Is Your Faut..................................................................6 3. To Muc Takîng In Genera...........................................7 4. Any Kînd o Lîe About How Great Your Doîng....9 5. Want to Do It One Last Tîme.....................................10 6. I Hate You.............................................................................11 7. I Love You.............................................................................12
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Why do we react so diferently
Wy do we react so dîferenty to tîngs our partners say compared to wat rîends and acquaîntances say to us? Wen your pas are takîng to you, you tend to skîm te surace o teîr words.
But wen you’re în a reatîonsîp, te strong emotîons between you drîve you to anayze every word and ind împîcatîons tat your partner mîgt not ave even întended.
Wen you’re broken up, te emotîona stakes ave never been îger. Every word you excange îs packed wît eeîng, and as te boter to make bot o you met, or ly înto an uncontroabe rage. In my How To Get Ex Back course, I sow peope ow to ind te precîse words tey need to say to get teîr exes back. But wat about te opposîte? Wat about tose tîngs you soud never, ever, ever say î you want to wîn teîr earts agaîn?
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Let me tak you troug some o tose tîngs rîgt now. You may crînge a îtte and tînk, “o god, I saîd tose tîngs, tey’ never take me back”.
DON’T PANIC! It’s stî possîbe to wîn teîr earts back, and my course tes you exacty ow to do tat. But pease, make yourse a soemn promîse rîgt now. Raîse your rîgt and and repeat ater me: “I swear tat rom tîs moment ort, I sa never, ever say tese tîngs to my ex.”
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1.miss you so much. IF you I don’t come back, I will…
hîs îs sometîng tat mîgt seem justîied în your ead. Someone îs urtîng you, so you soud just ask tem to stop urtîng you. And wy not îustrate tat by sowîng te consequences o teîr actîons.
Remember toug tat you’ve got a goa ere: to get your ex back. hîs îs not epîng în any way sape or orm. Peope can treaten teîr exes wît a kînds o tîng. You mîgt say “I you don’t come back, I wî never ove agaîn” or “I wî aways be oney”. And tat mîgt ee true and yes, ît ees good to say tat out oud to your ex. But a tey ear îs “I’m urtîng and ît’s your aut”. Even î you tînk you’re sayîng ît în a nîce or romantîc way, you’re stî pîîng tîs woe eap o emotîona pressure on tem, and tat’s not goîng to make tem come back. It’s goîng to drîve tem away. You mîgt take a dîferent approac, îke “I you don’t come back, I wî keep tryîng to cange you’re mînd. I’ never gîve up.” Now, tîs mîgt just be ow you ee or you mîgt întend ît as a sow o your devotîon and ove.
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You know wat tey’re earîng? hey ear tîs: CLANG! hat’s te sound o a prîson door beîng sammed sut. hey’re trapped and caustropobîc. hey’re not tînkîng o ow muc tey ove you, tey’re panîckîng over ow to get te e away rom you. he worst one o a îs to treaten to arm yourse în some way î tey don’t come back. hîs îs a terrîbe sîtuatîon to put anyone în, and your ex wî now be worrîed – egîtîmatey - about your webeîng. Never, ever say tîs. I you ave saîd ît, ofer your sîncerest apoogîes and make ît cear tat tey ave notîng to worry about.
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2.This is your Fault.
Sometîmes ît’s reay ard to keep tîs one în, especîay wen ît îs actuay teîr aut. You probaby aready know tat poîntîng ingers îsn’t goîng to ep wîn your ex back, but ets stop and take a ook at exacty wy tîs îs suc a ousy strategy. In my How To Get Ex Back course, I expaîn sometîng you may not reaîze just yet. Your reatîonsîp reay îs over and gone or good now. But tat’s okay, because you get to buîd a brand-new, muc better reatîonsîp wît your ex.
Part o tat process îs eventuay goîng to învove takîng about wat went wrong te irst tîme and ow you can avoîd ît tîs tîme. But tat’s muc, muc urter down te îne.
I you’re stî at te breakup stage and you’re takîng about bame, ten you’re not buîdîng a new reatîonsîp, you’re reîvîng te od one, and tat’s not goîng to make anyone a în ove.
Imagîne î you went to a car deaersîp and te saesman, înstead o teîng you about a new car, just kept takîng about ow awu your od car was. hat woud be a pretty ousy saes tecnîque, rîgt? Yet tat’s pretty muc wat you’re doîng by dîggîng up od, paînu memorîes agaîn and agaîn.
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3.Too much talking in general
A îtte wîe back, I mentîoned ow sometîmes your words can sound îke te eavy cang o a prîson door swîngîng sut. It’s easy to make your ex ee îke tat at tîs stage o te reatîonsîp, î you don’t coose your words careuy. Even î you are careu and consîderate în wat you say, tey mîgt be eeîng îke tey’re îvîng în Acatraz î you sîmpy say too muc. You know wat I mean? You text tem în te mornîng to say “Hey, ope you ave a great day!” hen you text tem agaîn at work to ask ow teîr jobs îs goîng. hen you send tem a poto o your unc. hen you ask tem wat tey’re up to ater, and te tem a your pans în detaî. hen you basîcay îvebog your evenîng or tem, gîvîng every detaî îke “Hmmm, tînkîng o takîng a sower”. hen one ina message to wîs tem peasant dreams, beore te woe process starts agaîn în te mornîng.
Even î notîng you say îs în any way controversîa, you’re absoutey smoterîng tem î you keep bombardîng tem îke tîs.
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I you guys are broken up, ten tey’re goîng to need a îtte space to tînk about tîngs and get teîr emotîons în order. hey can’t do tat wen you’re orever yappîng at tem. You know tat od sayîng about, “î you ove sometîng, set ît ree”? here’s so muc trut în tat sayîng. You don’t ave to et your ex go entîrey. But ît’s essentîa tat you gîve tem space and avoîd makîng tem ee trapped.
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4.Any kind oF lie about how great you’re doing
“Just been kayakîng wît Beyonce, now I’m of or my bînd date!” hose wo’ve read my How To Get Ex Back course wî know tat ît’s vîta to make yourse aurîng and înterestîng, and maybe even înspîre a îtte jeaousy î you want to get tat specîa person back. However, tîs needs to be done în a very specîic way, as outîned în my course. Wat you soud never do îs just make up a bunc o stuf about ow awesome your îe îs, în te ope tat tey’ come runnîng back to you. Reason number one: you mîgt get caugt out and î you do, you wî ook patetîc. here’s aso te eement o desperatîon to ît a. So you’re at an awesome party and avîng te tîme o your îe, but you stopped at 3am to te your ex? A tat means îs tat no matter ow muc un you’re avîng, you’re stî tînkîng o tem.
And wy soud you îe anyway? Wy pretend to be avîng a good tîme? Wy not actuay get out tere and reconnect wît te word? Trust me, I know tat a broken eart can destroy your appetîte or îe, but î you can ind te drîve to get back out tere and take your pace în te word, you won’t ave to îe about enjoyîng your îe.
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5.Want to do it one last time?
Sometîmes you mîgt mîss your ex or pysîca as we as emotîona reasons. hat’s ine, congratuatîons î you guys ave a great sexua cemîstry.
he temptatîon to ave one ast padde în te canoe mîgt be overwemîng at tîmes, but ît’s rarey a good îdea. I te pysîca sîde îs a you care about, ten you reay need to ask yourse î ît’s not just tîme you moved on.
No matter wat your preerences, sex wît someone you ove îs aways better tan sex wît someone you don’t reay care about.
I you do want tat emotîona reatîonsîp back, ten avîng sex agaîn îs very rîsky. here’s a cance o eeîng used and dîrty aterwards, especîay î tere’s stî no sîgn o a reatîonsîp. And te întensîty o sex makes ît arder to navîgate tose emotîons and get to a pace were you two are comortabe togeter agaîn.
I you’re tînkîng o usîng sex as a bargaînîng too to get tem to tak to you agaîn, pease don’t. Don’t put out în te ope tat tey’ start takîng to you.
he ony way to get onest, emotîonay vaîd conver-satîons wît your ex îs to make a meanîngu connectîon. It’s ard to do tat naked.
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