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Publié par | Everest Media LLC |
Date de parution | 19 mars 2022 |
Nombre de lectures | 0 |
EAN13 | 9781669354635 |
Langue | English |
Poids de l'ouvrage | 1 Mo |
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Insights on John Gottman, Julie Schwartz Gottman and Doug Abrams & Rachel Carlton Abrams's Eight Dates
Contents Insights from Chapter 1 Insights from Chapter 2 Insights from Chapter 3 Insights from Chapter 4 Insights from Chapter 5 Insights from Chapter 6 Insights from Chapter 7 Insights from Chapter 8 Insights from Chapter 9 Insights from Chapter 10 Insights from Chapter 11 Insights from Chapter 12 Insights from Chapter 13 Insights from Chapter 14 Insights from Chapter 15 Insights from Chapter 16 Insights from Chapter 17
Insights from Chapter 1
#1
The success or failure of a marriage or long-term relationship is not a coin toss. It is not chance. It is choice. We now know what couples can do to improve the odds.
#2
The secret to creating a love that lasts and grows over time is to make non-negotiable time for your partner a priority, and never stop being curious about your partner.
#3
The great relationships are built on respect, empathy, and a profound understanding of each other. You can’t be in a relationship and not have conflict, but you can learn how to manage it together and make it work.
#4
The eight dates and conversations in this book are designed to help you understand your partner better, and to see if you’re compatible. They may even help you get to know each other all over again, and return to those times when you would stay up all night talking and couldn’t wait to learn more about each other.
#5
We have a set of eight guided conversations that will help you find out if a potential partner will be a source of happiness or misery for you, and if you’re committed to this person, what work you need to do to make your love last.
#6
The early part of a relationship is about establishing trust and a shared future. Inevitably, there will be bumps in the road as you navigate two different lives, two different childhoods, and two different family histories.
#7
The Love Lab was a research facility at Indiana University that studied marriage and divorce. It allowed researchers to track the couples’ bodies language, vital signs, and facial expressions. They also asked the couples to explain how their relationship was different now from when they first met.
#8
The Love Lab was a research project conducted by John M. Gottman and his wife, Julie Schwartz Gottman, that studied how people stay in relationships. It was painstaking, methodical, and thorough research that allowed them to determine with 94 percent accuracy who would stay married and who would eventually divorce.
#9
The couples who are most likely to have happy marriages show the following qualities and characteristics when they talk about their relationship: fondness, admiration, we-ness, expansiveness, and glo-rification of the struggle.