How to Attain Merit

Aggarwal 'Viren' Varinder

Description

This book provides useful insights into sharpening the merit of children with an altogether different perspective. This book is an ideal and effective tool for parents and their children in recognising and overcoming their problems, worries and tensions that affect studies. It will also guide children in their pursuit to excel in studies, be meritorious and lead a happy and successful life. In brief, the chief objective of the book is to help the parents as well as the teachers in bringing up their children in an efficient manner, encourage their talents and motivate them to pursue productive skills to Make it Big in their academic lives!

Informations

• Publié par: V & S Publishers
• Date de parution: 09 janvier 2017
• Nombre de lectures: 1
• EAN13: 9789350578537
• Langue: English
• Poids de l'ouvrage: 4 Mo

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How to Attain Merit?
Varinder ‘Viren’
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Edition 2018 DISCLAIMER While every attempt has been made to provide accurate and timely information in this book, neither the author nor the publisher assumes any responsibility for errors, unintended omissions or commissions detected therein. The author and publisher make no representation or warranty with respect to the comprehensiveness or completeness of the contents provided. All matters included have been simplified under professional guidance for general information only without any warranty for applicability on an individual. Any mention of an organization or a website in the book by way of citation or as a source of additional information doesn’t imply the endorsement of the content either by the author or the publisher. It is possible that websites cited may have changed or removed between the time of editing and publishing the book. Results from using the expert opinion in this book will be totally dependent on individual circumstances and factors beyond the control of the author and the publisher. It makes sense to elicit advice from well informed sources before implementing the ideas given in the book. The reader assumes full responsibility for the consequences arising out from reading this book. For proper guidance, it is advisable to read the book under the watchful eyes of parents/guardian. The buyer of this book assumes all responsibility for the use of given materials and information. The copyright of the entire content of this book rests with the author/publisher. Any infringement/transmission of the cover design, text or illustrations, in any form, by any means, by any entity will invite legal action and be responsible for consequences thereon.
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Publisher's Note
V&S Publishers is known for a wide range of books on a variety of subjects, such as: Self-Help and Personality Development category, Academic books for students of all ages, Storybooks, Health Books, Cookery Books, Dictionaries, Management Books, Books on Computer Science, etc. The book, How to Attain Merit? is one among the innumerable best-sellers on Self-Help and Personality Development published by us, like The Success of Failure, Winners’ Podium, Success 2020, Seven Keys to Happiness, 7 Mantras to Excel in Exams, etc.
The main idea behind publishing this book is to help the parents and guardians, as well as the teachers and mentors to bring up their children in the most efficient manner, and help them to achieve their goals and fulfill their dreams. This book is different from any other book on Personality Development or Parenting , as it discusses how a child can attain merit?
How to guide the young ones to pursue their ambitions in life, how to motivate and encourage them to develop and enhance their skills, how to cope up with stress and failures of life, how to remain calm, patient and at the same, always enthusiastic to learn something new and innovative, etc., are the key features of the book.
Hope the book serves its purpose well in educating and helping millions of parents, guardians and teachers in bringing out the best in their children/wards and make them successful in their respective lives!
Contents PART - I Understanding Children & their Families 1. Development of Children 2. Different Personalities of Children and Their Development 3. Irregularity in School PART - II Upbringing & Development of Children 4. Supervision by Parents 5. Upon Return from School 6. Interests and Creativity PART - III How to be Meritorious 7. Meditation and Development of Talents 8. Ingredients of Good Memory Power 9. Hard Work and Dedication 10. The Final Journey : Merit
PART - I
UNDERSTANDING CHILDREN & THEIR FAMILIES
Chapter 1
Development of Children

Children keep learning something or the other every moment from each and every activity taking place around them. They have a very keen observation and a very good memory which develops further day by day. They also learn a lot from their own experiences as well by way of touch, smell, observation or whenever they get hurt. Since children are innocent and do not know much, they have their own way of thinking and understanding things and situations. Being inexperienced, they may not even fear a danger. Many times, children keep on repeating words and sentences without any usefulness or any purpose. In such situations, alert parents remind and sometimes scold their children a number of times to discontinue it. Such acts are more prominent upto 5-6 years of their age.
A family is the first abode of children, since their birth. This is the first step from where they start their basic learnings. Children will inherit, develop good thinking and talents if they are provided with a good, suitable and positive environment for its growth. Since their birth children remain in constant touch of their mothers for most of the time. They are greatly influenced by her actions, behaviour and teachings. Children get the best of education whenever their mother pledges to support them. She tries to guide and teach them the best, develop their talents and enhance their competency to optimum levels.

Such children not only prove to be a blessing for the family but also become an asset for the society and the nation. For the all round development of children, their mother will always have to remain alert towards the fulfilment of their basic needs and wishes. A mother is responsible during her pregnancy, as well as afterwards also to provide her children a suitable, organised and comfortable living environment. A mother not only gives birth or rears her children, but also plays a significant role in shaping the course of their future. Truly speaking, she is the one and only prime educator and mentor of her children. After their mothers, children are most influenced by their father who is the next person in their close proximity. Other immediate family members like their brothers or sisters, aunty, uncle or grandparents also play an important role in their upbringing.
Formal education through school is the next step towards the development of children. This is the first time when children have to remain away from their parents for a few hours everyday after being in their constant custody since birth. Many children create a lot of tantrums in the beginning, while going to the school. Primary schools are especially decorated with colourful designs, funny animated pictures and certain cartoon characters to attract these tiny tots towards it. Besides all these, it is also important that the school premises and its surroundings are hygienic, always neat, clean and attractive . They should also have all the basic amenities so that children feel comfortable and can fully concentrate on their studies.
A common challenge often faced by parents is the selection of a suitable school for their children. There are two main concerns which need to be addressed by them. One is the overall development of children which includes their formal education and other activities in the school. And the other is the awakening and polishing of their children’s talents in a proper manner. All schools and their academic staff have numerous skills in unleashing the abilities of children and its development. Parents after sacrificing their own comforts and overcoming numerous problems, only wish that they get their children admitted in the school which suits them the most. They make enquiries from their near and dear ones, from parents of other children and also from people connected to the field of education in one way or the other.

Children observe and learn a lot of things in the school besides their formal education. There they learn important lessons of life as well as etiquettes and manners from their mistakes and experiences. They also get cautioned from the mistakes and experiences of others by the way of sharing among their friends and other students. Children also get impressed by the good deeds and achievements of their friends, teachers and other people in their close contact.
Activities undertaken and time spent in the school by children make up for most part of their day. Their physical and mental calibre gets tested when they have to follow the rules and regulations of the school and treat others in the most decent manner. They are also bound to fulfil other commitments and obligations with regard to their studies as well. Since all children are not equal, hence, their learnings, development and challenges are also different from each other. Many times, it results into lesser concentration in the class, poor performance and even failure in the exams. This is an indication to the parents as well as their teachers that the working system of their children is lacking somewhere. It could be due to proper attention or timely guidance. For this, the parents and teachers are required to allot enough time and energy to find out the actual cause of their worries and a suitable solutions for it. The Parents Teacher Meeting (PTM) which is usually held every month in the school is a very progressive step in this direction.

Children are very enthusiastic. They are always eager to know new things as well as the replies to all their queries. N ew thoughts are always cropping up in their minds. Parents and teachers should ensure to provide all the necessary articles and items requir