Hot And Bothered Sex Series

Speedy Publishing

Description

Whether billed as romance or erotica, the main audience for sex novels is women. Why do they read them? Because often these books, from their cover art to their characters to their plots, are meant to appeal to a female demographic. They're easy to read escapism that speaks to what its audience wants, particularly those who want to experience a little bit of vicarious sex through the leads. Particularly if it's the kind of sex the reader may not have.

Sujets

• Fantasy (canción de Mariah Carey)
• General officer
• Science fiction
• Photography
• Lesbian
• BDSM
• Erotica
• General
• Romance
• Bondage et discipline, domination et soumission et sado-masochisme
• Fiction
• ART
• Fantasy
• Sexualité
• sexualité
• Sexualité

Informations

• Publié par: Speedy Publishing LLC
• Date de parution: 23 juillet 2014
• Nombre de lectures: 7
• EAN13: 9781633833159
• Langue: English

Extrait

Table of Contents
6 Days to Great Sex
CHAPTER 1- WHAT IS THE SCIENCE OF SEX?
CHAPTER 2- DAY 1: HOW TO GET TO KNOW YOUR PARTNERS SEXUAL DESIRES
CHAPTER 3- DAY 2: HOW TO GET STARTED- THE BENEFITS OF CUDDLING
CHAPTER 4- DAY 3: HOW TO SEAL THE BOND WITH SEX IN THE MORNING
CHAPTER 5- DAY 4: HOW TO EXPLORE YOUR PARTNERS BODY
CHAPTER 6- DAY 5: WHY MASSAGES HELP IMPROVE THE SEXUAL EXPERIENCE
CHAPTER 7- DAY 6: HOW TO PUT IT ALL TOGETHER
Lesbian Sauna Sex
Lesbian Erotica
Using The Boss As A Sex Toy
Using the Boss as a Sex Toy
About Kelly Sanders
6 Days to Great Sex
The Ultimate Guide to Successful Coitus
By: Karen Boulder
 

 
 
CHAPTER 1- WHAT IS THE SCIENCE OF SEX?
The science of sex includes the study of sexual activity and "what makes you tick" so to speak. Indulging in the science of sex can bring some insight into what would work best between you and your partner, in regards to what would bring about the most pleasurable of intimate experiences. Since this can differ widely, depending on the person, it makes sense that the science of sex would cover a wide variety of topics. These topics include what an individual would prefer to see or experience during their sexual acts, what type of mindset an individual has to be experiencing in order to achieve arousal, and exactly why certain things are more attractive to them in a sexual sense.

For many people, a sex drive is consistently present throughout their lives. This includes when they get older. It's true that many people tend to lose their sex drive way later in life, such as in their 80's to 90's, but many people do tend to keep a decent sex drive even after they lose the ability to reproduce. That being said, it makes sense that sexual acts may hold a different importance for most people, rather than only for the act of reproduction. Since human beings as a whole tend to associate sex with certain triggers of arousal, the first step to figuring out why this is could lie in an evaluation of their personal tastes and experiences.
There are numerous positive facts behind sex, which include health benefits in the indulgence of sexual acts. For starters, men who have sex at least three times per week are likely to decrease their chances of having a stroke or a heart attack. In fact, the likeliness of having a stroke or heart attack can easily be reduced by at least 50 percent! It's also believed that having an orgasm on a regular basis can actually decrease pain in general, such as aches that the body usually gains from sleeping.
Even doing something as small as having sex once per week instead of once per month you can easily see an increase in a positive outlook on life, not to mention enjoy the many health benefits of having a healthy sex life. Studies have even shown that women who enjoy sex tend to enjoy a longer life, versus those women who do not enjoy sex as much. Since having sex regularly can make you feel younger, it's this positive mindset that helps reduce stress and frustration brought about from a life full of difficulties. It only makes sense that you could potentially live longer when you're actually taking the time to stop and smell the roses.
The study for the science of sex incorporates all of this. The science of sex also follows certain theories that surround sex and is very largely based on gender. Gender differences play a huge part, not only in the actual act of sex, but also in the reasoning that human being's have for certain gender responsibilities. For example, it has always been the stereotype that women are more likely to be dominated and that men are meant to be the ones who dominate. This may have been true long ago, back when men were more in tuned with their more raw and instinctual side.
Nowadays, the tables have turned a bit, as far as gender roles go. Dominant women are more common, although not necessarily the most likely type of sexual personality. In fact, it's not unheard of for a timid and quiet person in their business life to be very loud, outgoing, and extremely sexually charged in their personal life. Many would say that this individual would be "leading a double life" but it has become quite the norm for people to be able to separate their love life and their professional life.
It has been said that the biggest and most important sexual organ is the brain, rather than the person's reproductive organs. Without the brain, it would be impossible to achieve sexual arousal, let alone achieve climax during sex. For many people, particularly women, it is important for them to have the right state of mind in order to enjoy sex. Having the right state of mind is crucial for enjoying yourself and for wanting more sex in the future. It has also been said that women do not have as much on their mind, as far as sexual acts go. Women may think of sex once or twice per day, but it is widely believed that men have sex on their mind quite often. Some men may even think about something sexual once every few minutes or so, depending on how high their sex drive is at that point in time.
The science of sex includes many tips of the act and how to better it for yourself and your partner. Since sex, as far as science goes, covers every aspect of it, this comes to as no surprise. For example, women may be more inclined to enjoy sex when their partner gives them compliments that make them feel more comfortable and relax more. Try complimenting the way she looks, smells, feel, and so on. Using the senses to describe a woman in a positive light will make them feel more inclined to indulge in more adventurous acts of sex, since their confidence will allow them to do so.
One of the most interesting aspects of the science of sex is the study of orgasms and what part of the brain is affected by them. It is true that when an individual has an orgasm, whether they are male or female, it affects more than just their mind, but also their entire body tends to feel a "shock wave" sensation. The study of sex covers just why a person tends to react that way, the difference in the sensation of reaching orgasm based on gender, and what the environment must be like for one to achieve it.
 
 
CHAPTER 2- DAY 1: HOW TO GET TO KNOW YOUR PARTNERS SEXUAL DESIRES
Sexual desire is a mysterious, fickle, frustrating, exhilarating piece of the human experience. Sexual desire can come and go like the ebb and flows of ocean tides. It has as much to do with psychology as anatomy. And what turns you on one day might do nothing for you the next. There is nothing more harmoniously pleasing than when your partner understands, anticipates and meets your sexual needs. Likewise, it can be incredibly frustrating when they don't, like two gears spinning in opposite cycles rather than in unison.
At some point sexual partners want to better understand the desires that drive their partner. This should not be viewed as a problem in a relationship. Rather it can be a fun exploration that can draw partners closer. Some things will work, others will be a bust. But as long as you treat the quest as an adventure to do as a couple with humor, patience, open-mindedness and love, it will lead to a stronger and more fulfilling sex life for both of you.
So here are the tips. Happy explorations!
Observe
When you touch your partner, kiss your partner, caress your partner - watch him for signs of pleasure; moans, relaxation, hardening, quickening. See what it does to slow down a rhythm or speed up. Watch for his reaction when you raise your hips, tighten or spread your legs, scratch his back or buttocks.
Talk
Talking about sexual desires can be difficult for many people. It's not a topic for polite conversation at the dinner table. But bed talk can be incredibly sexy. If this is hard for you, remember that if you want your partner to clue you in to his desires, have him take his cue from you. Be open about what you enjoy and what you don't. Just remember to be kind and express yourself in such a way as to build your lovers confidence while providing constructive feedback. This is love-making after-all, not a science experiment or business performance review. Ask your partner what they like, what they want to try. Try explicitly stating what you want to do to them and see if that is a turn on. And if not, stick with the moans and gasps as cues for what works well.
Watch
Ask your partner to do to themselves (if possible) what they would like you to do and watch. Be open to watching porn or at least some R-rated movies together. Just understand that visual turn-ons are a funny thing. Sometimes you are turned on by watching something you have no desire to do yourself. The voyeurism of the explicit sexuality is enough.
Try
Be willing to try new things. Sometimes this might mean new positions or types of sexual acts. Other times it might involve new places or new props or role-playing or people. Approach this with a sense of fun, just as you did as a child learning new games. Sexual desires are often piqued by trying new things and going to the edge of your comfort zone. What is often the most desirable is the forbidden. So don't be afraid to try some things that previously seemed naughty.
Retreat
If your partner is not comfortable with your attempts at exploration and understanding his desires, then it is OK to take a break and go back to previous comfort levels. It is also perfectly OK for you to set limits as to what you are willing to try or do. It is OK to say no. And there are some boundaries that should never be crossed. Do not take part of any sexual encounter where a participant is unable to f