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This brief, incisive, and entertaining book will take you to that place where sales are made with energy and flow. Finding the Sticking Point shows you how to converse with your customers in ways that help you:
  • Find the point of resistance to a sale
  • Detect its connection of this point of resistance to your cutomer's emotional needs and energizers
  • Build a relationship based on trust
  • Increase your sales by revealing the Bigger Reality between you and your customers.
As the author puts it: "Selling is not about closing sales; it’s about opening relationships: engaging relationships that will support many closed sales."
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01 octobre 2012

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Brady G. Wilson is the co-founder of Juice Inc. Juice is an organization committed to creating environments where great results flow and it feels good to work. Such environments are particularly important for sales teams. Brady has unleashed profitable results for sales professionals in many of North America’s Fortune 500 companies. His passion for creating breakthroughs for companies has spawned such innovative tools and programs as Pull Conversations ™ , The Five Drivers of Engagement ™ , and The Juice Check ™ . Also the author of Juice: The Power of Conversation , Brady lives in Guelph, Ontario.
Also by Brady G. Wilson
JUICE:
The Power of Conversation
Increase Sales by Transforming
Customer Resistance into
Customer Engagement
Copyright © 2009 by Brady G. Wilson
All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced or transmitted in any form or by any means, electronic or mechanical, including photocopying, recording, or any information storage and retrieval system, without permission in writing from the publisher.
Published in 2009 by
BPS Books
Toronto, Canada www.bpsbooks.com
A division of Bastian Publishing Services Ltd.
ISBN 978-0-9809231-9-3
Cataloguing in Publication Data available from Library and Archives Canada.
Text and cover design: Tannice Goddard

Printed by Lightning Source, Tennessee. Lightning Source paper, as used in this book, does not come from endangered old growth forests or forests of exceptional conservation value. It is acid free, lignin free, and meets all ANSI standards for archival-quality paper. The print-on-demand process used to produce this book protects the environment by printing only the number of copies that are purchased.
To my granddaughter Maya:
She susses out the buyer’s hot buttons, demonstrates great resilience, and never fails to go for the close!
At under two years of age, she could teach us all a thing or two about sales .
CONTENTS
Preface
Acknowledgments
Introduction
The Sticking Point
Push, Give In, or Pull
The Sticking Point Process: A Step-by-Step Preview
Chapter 1
Pull Conversations: In Sales, Relationships Make the Difference
Why Customers Buy
Push or Pull?
Pulling Works Better
Getting 50% More
The Payoff
What Are We Really Saying Here?
Put the Sticking Point to Work
Chapter 2
Why Do People Buy? Welcome to the Feelings Economy
“Soft Feelings” Drive Hard Results
Why Customers Buy
First and Last Impressions
What Are We Really Saying Here?
Put the Sticking Point to Work
Chapter 3
The Big Payoff: Triggering Desirable Emotional Energizers
The Emotional Energizers
How to Deal with Your Customer’s Energizers
Six Advantages to Uncovering Emotional Energizers
The Sale of a Lifetime
What Are We Really Saying Here?
Put the Sticking Point to Work
Chapter 4
Are You a Push or a Pull Salesperson? Accessing the Genius of Pull Conversations
The Problem with Push
Why Most of Us Push
Mental Muscle Memory
Seven Reasons Why We Push as Salespeople
Why Pull Works Better
Logic and Passion Are Not Sufficient
In Sales, Trust = Speed
What Are We Really Saying Here?
Put the Sticking Point to Work
Chapter 5
The Key Components of Pull: Combining Inquiry and Directness
Inquiry
Directness
Pull Matrix
Blended Is Splendid: Inquiry and Directness
How Inquiry and Directness Work Together
“Other Than That”
What Are We Really Saying Here?
Put the Sticking Point to Work
Chapter 6
Step into Your Customer’s World: Understanding Their Reality
One Salesperson’s Transformation
Relationship Tension and Task Tension
A Tale of the Roses
What Are We Really Saying Here?
Put the Sticking Point to Work
Chapter 7
The Magic of Understanding: Transforming Conflicts into Sales Opportunities
Finding Common Ground
Real Customer Appreciation
What Are We Really Saying Here?
Put the Sticking Point to Work
Chapter 8
Reflect the Customer’s Reality: Optimizing Your Sales Effectiveness
Reflection
How to Listen Empathically
The Three Components of Empathic Listening
From Beginner to Master Reflector
Don’t Walk in Their Shoes
What Are We Really Saying Here?
Put the Sticking Point to Work
Chapter 9
The Power of Invitational Language: Welcoming Customers into Your World
See, Feel, Change
Invite Them into Your World
Use Language That Lives
Use Stories as a Springboard
Use Stories to Frame Solutions
What Are We Really Saying Here?
Put the Sticking Point to Work
Chapter 10
The Power of Face-to-Face Conversations: Speaking Your Truth Productively
Be Direct
Why Face-to-Face Conversations Release Energy
Mirror Neurons
Emotional Contagion
Trust-Building Hormones
Nonverbal Cues Are Meaning Makers
Being Direct Earns Respect
Ask the Unaskable
Why We’re Not Direct
Speak Your Truth Productively
What Is Your “truth”?
Use Non-Blaming Language
Examples of Non-Blaming XYZ Language
Use Humor to Take the Edge Off Your Message
What Are We Really Saying Here?
Put the Sticking Point to Work
Chapter 11
It’s a Two-Way Street: Checking Your Customer’s Understanding
Help Them Reflect Back What They’ve Understood
Effective Ways to Prevent Misunderstandings
What Are We Really Saying Here?
Put the Sticking Point to Work
Chapter 12
Pull Out the Bigger Reality: Performing the Magic of 1 + 1 = 5
What’s Important to You?
How to bring Your Worlds Together to Find Common Ground
Join Your Worlds Together with “And”
Ask, “What Is It We Both Want Here?”
Avoid “Dichotomy Thinking”
Draw Out the Assumptions That Obscure the Bigger Reality
The Emotionally Intelligent Sales Rep
How You Get Triggered
The Amygdala Hijack
Focused Attention Increases Performance
What Are We Really Saying Here?
Put the Sticking Point to Work
Chapter 13
Pull Out People’s Best Stuff: Releasing Brilliance Through Respect
Respect
Respect Facilitates Learning
Person or Thing?
If They Don’t Feel It, It’s Not There
Respect Unlocks Your Customers’ Discretionary Effort
Are You Missing Out on Your Customers’ Best Stuff?
How to Show Respect
Caveat
Respect Is Person-Specific
Manage These Eight Deadly Distractions
What Are We Really Saying Here?
Put the Sticking Point to Work
Chapter 14
The Pull Conversation Sales Approach: Engaging Your Customers
The Rehearsal
The Sales Call
The Debrief
The Follow-up
What Are We Really Saying Here?
Put the Sticking Point to Work
Conclusion
What Are We Really Saying in This Book?
Index
PREFACE
I wrote my first book, Juice , as a way of laying down the tracks of my belief that conversations are the “operating system” of successful organizations and individuals.
Writing that book has enabled me to write this book, which focuses on a particular kind of conversation: sales conversations — the kind you and I are involved in day in and day out, personally and professionally, as we sell and buy services, products, and ideas.
In some respects the message of the present book is similar to that of Malcolm Gladwell’s The Tipping Point .
Gladwell’s book shows how a service, product, or idea passes “suddenly” into public acceptance, often after time-consuming development and planning.
Similarly, Finding the Sticking Point reveals the role, in successful sales transactions, of patient, understanding, humane conversations. Specifically, it shows how sales conversations can find the customer’s sticking point — the fear, the block, the objection that stands in the way of their “yes” — and answer it. This process aligns the customer’s needs and the seller’s goals — and results in a sale.
I would like to make two important qualifications about this book:
First, it is not a how-to book on the mechanics of openings, qualifying, closing, or asking for the sale. Rather, it offers an operating system — Pull Conversations — that will increase your success in executing any sales system you may use.
Second, it is not for sales professionals only. A broad range of people can benefit from it. We all sell at some point, whether it be a vacation preference to a spouse, a household chore to a teenager, or ourselves to a prospective employer.
The insights and the advice offered in this book have been of great help to my colleagues, customers, and friends in their homes and on the job.
My hope and expectation is that they will also be of help to you.
ACKNOWLEDGMENTS
I ’m a grateful guy and I’m going to be brief.
I want to thank the entire Juice team for the way they build each book: pulling, refining, challenging, and encouraging until the final product emerges into the light of day.
I have profound respect for the intellect and talent of my editor and publisher, Don Bastian. He makes things easy.
I’m thankful to my family, who continue to express ongoing interest in my work and my writing.
And I’m thankful to God: an amazing person with a sales perspective I’d love to understand more.
INTRODUCTION
A Juice colleague and I were sitting in a r

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