A Children''s Guide to Personality Development

Aggarwal 'Viren' Varinder

Description

This book has been written with particular focus on upbringing of children and teenagers from different socio-economic backgrounds. This book is an ideal and effective tool for parents and their children. It will help them in recognising and overcoming their problems, worries and tensions. This book will enable them to enhance their talents that they may be having in the field of art, music or sports, etc. It will also guide children in their pursuit to excel in studies, be meritorious and lead a happy and successful life. In brief, the chief objective of the book is to help the parents as well as the teachers in bringing up and nourishing their children in an efficient manner, encourage their talents and motivate them to pursue these skills to Make it Big in their Future Lives!

Informations

• Publié par: V & S Publishers
• Date de parution: 09 janvier 2017
• Nombre de lectures: 0
• EAN13: 9789350578292
• Langue: English
• Poids de l'ouvrage: 1 Mo

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A Children’s Guide to Personality Development
Varinder ‘Viren’
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Edition 2018 DISCLAIMER While every attempt has been made to provide accurate and timely information in this book, neither the author nor the publisher assumes any responsibility for errors, unintended omissions or commissions detected therein. The author and publisher make no representation or warranty with respect to the comprehensiveness or completeness of the contents provided. All matters included have been simplified under professional guidance for general information only without any warranty for applicability on an individual. Any mention of an organization or a website in the book by way of citation or as a source of additional information doesn’t imply the endorsement of the content either by the author or the publisher. It is possible that websites cited may have changed or removed between the time of editing and publishing the book. Results from using the expert opinion in this book will be totally dependent on individual circumstances and factors beyond the control of the author and the publisher. It makes sense to elicit advice from well informed sources before implementing the ideas given in the book. The reader assumes full responsibility for the consequences arising out from reading this book. For proper guidance, it is advisable to read the book under the watchful eyes of parents/guardian. The purchaser of this book assumes all responsibility for the use of given materials and information. The copyright of the entire content of this book rests with the author/publisher. Any infringement/transmission of the cover design, text or illustrations, in any form, by any means, by any entity will invite legal action and be responsible for consequences thereon.
Publisher's Note
V&S Publishers is known for a wide range of books on a variety of subjects, such as: Self-Help and Personality Development category, Academic books for students of all ages, Storybooks, Health Books, Cookery Books, Dictionaries, Management Books, Books on Computer Science, etc. The book, A Children’s Guide to Personality Development is one among the innumerable best-sellers on Self-Help and Personality Development published by us, like The Success of Failure, Winners’ Podium, Success 2020, Seven Keys to Happiness, 7 Mantras to Excel in Exams, etc.
The main idea behind publishing this book is to help the parents and guardians, as well as the teachers and mentors to bring up their children in the most efficient manner, encouraging their talents or skills and motivating them to pursue these skills to achieve their goals and fulfill their dreams. This book is different from any other book on Personality Development or Parenting , as it discusses elaborately the various salient aspects for the perfect upbringing and overall development of a child’s personality.
How to guide the young ones to pursue their ambitions in life, how to motivate and encourage them to develop and enhance their skills or talents, how to cope up with stress and failures of life, how to remain calm, patient and at the same, always enthusiastic to learn something new and innovative, etc., are the key features of this book.
Hope the book serves its purpose well in educating and helping millions of parents, guardians and teachers in bringing out the best in their children/wards and make them successful in their respective lives!
Contents PART - I Understanding Children & their Families 1. Children in a Family 2. The Environment of a Family 3. Development of Children 4. Different Personalities of Children and Their Development 5. Inferiority Complex 6. Talents and Emotions 7. Behaviour Related Problems 8. Financial Prosperity and Pocket Money PART - II Upbringing & Development of Children 9. Ingredients for Development of Talents 10. Development of Talents: What, Why and How? 11. Answer Children’s Questions & Queries 12. Recognition and Encouragement of Talents 13. Sense of Responsibility 14. Hobbies 15. Supervision by Parents 16. Interests and Creativity 17. Effects of Inspiration 18. Talented Children and the Role of Their Parents 19. 21 Tips for the Enhancement of Talents
PART - I
UNDERSTANDING CHILDREN & THEIR FAMILIES
Chapter 1
Children in A Family

A family implants the initial seeds of common sense, logical thinking and intelligence to children. A family is such a beautiful setup which bears and rears their children right from their birth. Parents also train them mentally to facilitate them to intermingle freely in the society. It also helps them to face the challenges and realities of the outer world. Children born and brought up under such family guidance start understanding the functioning of the society and its setup in a better way. Hence, they are also in a better position to respect and acknowledge the importance it holds for the common man. And accordingly, they themselves also get accustomed to its ways in a positive manner. Sound fundamentals and intelligence ensure smooth functioning of the society which forms the base of a good and decent civilisation.
C hildren are the centre of attention of everyone’s desires and expectations in the family. They are also the basis of the achievements, recognition and honour of the family. Everywhere in the world, children are the basis of the whole social setup for whom we all struggle throughout our lives. There are two main concerns with respect to children. One is, their wellbeing and safety. And the other is, their psychological development. Parents and guardians work hard day and night to ensure a comfortable upbringing of their offsprings.
Birds and animals also undertake their responsibilities very well. Birds bring food in their beaks and feed their children with it. Man being the most developed species in the universe has the ability to feed their children as well as nurture them mentally too. He also ensures in the process that they continuously keep developing their abilities and knowledge further. Their abilities and competency enable them to take care of their surroundings and they gradually become an integral part of the society. Of what use is knowledge and ability of a learned surgeon if he doesn’t treat even a single person?

Knowledge and ability are developed to benefit the society at large. Each and every act of a person is influenced by his nature, habits and his way of thinking, which in turn greatly influences his family and children. He devotes his time, efforts and resources so that his children are far more intelligent, competent and successful than him. His children may not commit the same mistakes or face the bitter challenges of life, or they may not also lag behind due to any other shortcomings. This desire motivates him to work harder so that his children get the best of education and other facilities required. This enables them a fair standing in the society where they are recognised and respected.
A large chunk of our population is still engaged as farmers and labourers. Their poverty denies their children even the basic amenities and education. On the other hand, those who are prosperous feel a sense of pride in sending their children to English medium schools. Even struggling financially, many people belonging to the middle and upper middle class families have now started realising the necessity of good education which plays a major role in the mental development and competence of their children.
Over the years, there has been a dramatic rise in the number of high class educational institutions everywhere in the country. Children from wealthy families are enthusiatic in gaining admissions even in private play schools since their early ages itself. On the other hand, the government run schools are being considered as inferior by the society. Big private schools and educational institutions have become an industry in itself. Gaining admissions in such high class and expensive schools have become a prestigious issue among the masses. Here parents spend big amounts of money at the time of addmissions and later on, they have to bear all their other tantrums as, well.
The main objective is to keep the children well informed and updated in their studies so as to keep pace with the latest developments. But even after all such arrangements for the betterment of their children, parents are still worried and tense. More and more children are getting misinformed and misguided by the glamour of the cinema and fashion world. Its culture is prompting them into wrong habits at a very tender and innocent age meant for their studies only. Parents should adopt a more practical and mature approach towards this kind of menace and hence, ensure a bright future for their children.
Children born from the legally and socially accepted marriages are respectable in the society. They also form the basis of expectations and desires of their parents. It becomes the moral and social duty of parents to take appropriate interest in the proper upbringing and education of their children. Some children even get deprived from their due share of love and affection from their parents. It happens when there is a conflict or misunderstanding between their parents. Such children generally grow up and live with low self-esteem and little self-confidence throughout their lives.
On the other hand, there are lakhs of bright and genius children but their intellect often goes unnoticed. It