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Publié par | Inspiring Voices |
Date de parution | 14 avril 2014 |
Nombre de lectures | 0 |
EAN13 | 9781462408658 |
Langue | English |
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Five Minutes For France
A Scenic Travel Memoir of Fear, Escape, and Lost Underwear
Bronwyn Wilson
Copyright © 2014 Bronwyn Wilson.
Cover art by Jerry Wilson.
All rights reserved. No part of this book may be used or reproduced by any means, graphic, electronic, or mechanical, including photocopying, recording, taping or by any information storage retrieval system without the written permission of the publisher except in the case of brief quotations embodied in critical articles and reviews.
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ISBN: 978-1-4624-0864-1 (sc)
ISBN: 978-1-4624-0865-8 (e)
Library of Congress Control Number: 2013923165
Inspiring Voices rev. date: 4/14/2014
Contents
Acknowledgments
Introduction
Chapter 1 Garden Grove, California 1961
Chapter 2 Woodinville, Washington February 2008
Chapter 3 Fish Guts
Chapter 4 First Step Out the Door
Chapter 5 Clobbered By a Princess Wand
Chapter 6 Disney’s Chevys
Chapter 7 Travel Brochure Promises
Chapter 8 Golden Moments and Flying Fish
Chapter 9 Master Card Wedding
Chapter 10 Get Your Pitter-Patter
Chapter 11 Port of Call: Madeira
Chapter 12 Elephants and Unmade Beds
Chapter 13 Laundromat Love
Chapter 14 Port of Call: Seville
Chapter 15 Port of Call: Gibraltar
Chapter 16 Port of Call: Sardinia
Chapter 17 Port of Call: Rome
Chapter 18 Storytelling in the Dark
Chapter 19 Port of Call: Tuscany
Chapter 20 Port of Call: Provence
Chapter 21 Gucci Envy Me
Chapter 22 Elevator Limbo
Chapter 23 Escape the Escape
Chapter 24 Humor on the To-Do List
Chapter 25 A Spot of Tea and a Burning Book
Chapter 26 Final Port: Barcelona
Chapter 27 Mrs. B
Chapter 28 No Goodbyes Needed
Chapter 29 Worthy Naranjas
Chapter 30 Going Home
Afterword
In memory of Be verley
192 3-1962
For the carefree zeal of her typewriter, striking a clicking symphony of chic-chic-chika-chic in the kitchen at 2 a.m.; For affording me the opportunity to choose the color of frosting on my birthday cake. For giving me the love of words and for the blue frosting years.
To Jerry
For your entertaining Egyptian dances, the funny notes in the refrigerator, your support and thoughtful praise; for bringing beauty into my life with your brilliant creativity and imagination. For your love.
To my son
For telling me I’m one of your three favorite writers… I forgot the other two. For the cobalt blue ceramic eyeball you fashioned in your 8th grade art class and gave to me for Christmas; For the Mother’s Day you served me breakfast in bed with a buttered English muffin, red tulip in a vase, and big bowl of vanilla ice cream set on a blue Smurf tray.
To all who have suffered, or are suffering, from anxiety and don’t care to read books written in doct orese.
Acknowledgments
Much gratitude goes to the special people who encouraged and inspired me−often over lunch and many cups of coffee−during the course of writing this book:
Jerry for cheering me on, and sacrificing so I can write; my son for lifting me up with engaging humor and amusing stories; my daughter-in-law for the fun days of Tinkerbell and tea; Jodee for caring with an accepting heart and encouraging me to ‘live on the edge’; Teresa for your longtime unconditional friendship, for the fabulous Fourths, the ferry-crossing daycations and all the delicious chocolate cupcakes we dined on just before the sun came up; Alison Farmer for brightening my days with your uniquely talented inspiration of artistic beauty and cheer, and for your exquisite sunflower watercolor painting on my doorstep; Debbie Stone for your spirit of adventure and for the laughs and imagination sparked at the Purple Cafe; Janet Tracy for standing by me through my journey of recovery with your wit and wisdom and for your entertaining writing and storytelling; Susie Egan for your ingenious knack of creating fun and surprise in beautiful and artful ways, and for encouraging me at a local author’s book signing when you told me, “One day that will be you”; Karen Behling for your elegant cards and notes of encouragement; Suzi Freeman for your inventive ideas and not doubting my claim of writing this book, or otherwise you wouldn’t have asked to read it; Harriet Doohan for our mission and partnership on the e-zine and for bringing me up in the down times; Sondra Kephart for your warm camaraderie and saying you’d buy my book; Susan DeBow for caring about someone you never met in p erson.
To all my Sistas in Redmond, Washington and in Maricopa, Arizona who prayed for me; to Judy Bodmer for your grace and courage, your advocacy of writers and your thoughtful counsel and editorial guidance; to Mick Silva for your caring wisdom and reminding me the struggle in the search is purpo seful.
To Marisa Mitchell at Inspiring Voices for hanging in there. To her colleagues Ashly Taylor, Erica Hookfin, and Amanda Parsons for making the publishing process a joy.
Introduction
Our cruise ship docked in Barcelona. I got off. My luggage did not. Unbeknownst to me, my bags did not make it to the terminal along with everyone else’s lu ggage.
The mishap caused a deep desire to immediately replenish my lost clothing. At least, some of it. I focused on underwear. I would survive without my shirts and pants and pajamas. But not my underwear. I set out on Barcelona’s famed road La Rambla. I noticed colorful mosaics, artists, mimes and musicians. I didn’t stop to enjoy any of it. I didn’t have time. Not until I had purchased what the Spanish call “ropa interior.” Translation: “underwear.” Only then would I revel in Barcelona’s s ights.
With my focus on purchasing new skivvies, I missed out on much of the joy of exploring Barcelona’s beauty and mystique. Looking back, I see a similarity to the way I lived my life for many years. Rather than making room for the joy in my present circumstances, I focused on potential dangers and how to avoid them.
Seeking ways to keep myself away from danger wore me down over time. I came down with a full-blown case of hives, headaches, dizziness and intestinal difficulties. Not all at once, but at various intervals to keep me continuously annoyed. I trekked from doctor to doctor. Naturally I wanted a cure. Each doctor gave me the same diagnosis after exams and tests and much scratching of their head. “You’re healthy. I can’t find anything wrong,” they told me. Did they think I made this up? I couldn’t believe it. How many doctors does it take? Fifteen? Twenty-one? Maybe forty? But who’s counting? Not one doctor could find anything wrong. To quote my husband Jerry, “No wonder they call it a prac tice.”
The parental admonition to “be strong” and “never be a sissy” haunted me from a young age. I believed the erroneous idea that admitting to fear, anger and sadness demonstrated weakness. In my show of false bravery, I deprived myself of personal growth as well as happiness and freedom. I didn’t tell anyone of my inner struggle, not even Jerry. I wandered the dark caverns of my self-imposed entrapment, alone.
I didn’t connect my inner world with my physical ailments. And I felt exasperated by the few people in my life who didn’t have a medical degree, yet felt qualified to diagnose my condition. I clearly remember a friend calling me to give me a secondhand diagnosis, “Linda says your problems are due to your nerves. But she says you won’t listen!” Nerves! Hah! The nerve of her to say nerves! I continued my search for a biological cause.
This memoir follows my life with anxiety, how it developed, my search for a cure, what I discovered, and how I recovered. It also follows a scenic journey through the Mediterr anean.
This is a true story. In some instances I’ve imagined details, or converged scenes, in an effort to convey the truth of the experience or to cover for memory gaps (no one remembers the real name of the hamburger joint we patronized at midnight). I altered some sequences for context and flashbacks. Many names, as well as some characteristics, have been changed for pr ivacy.
My account in no way means to discredit my dad’s genuine desire to be a good parent. Everyone has, at times, given and received relational injuries. This isn’t to excuse hurtful behavior, only to understand we all have emotional wounds and that forgiveness of others and of ourselves is the only way to heal.
Wherever you are in your life travels−if anxiety has you in its grip, I hope my journey might help you in yours. If you’ve never experienced anxiety’s debilitating stronghold, it’s my hope you’ll gain insight into anxiety disorders, a condition that affects mil lions.
My story begins late at night in 1 961…
Chapter 1
Garden Grove, California 1961
Papa doesn’t know our s ecret.
I’m in bed with my play clothes on and my saddle shoes tied tight. I’m ready to go when Mom gives the signal. I can’t fall asleep. And my little sister Shannon can’t fall asleep either. She’s in bed with her clothes o n too.
Right now Papa snores in his bed. What if he wakes up while Mom, Shannon, and I try to make our getaway? The thought makes my insides feel tight like str