I Choose Brave

Katie Westenberg

Description

What if fear is the new brave? That's the question that you need answered if you are living afraid. Finding courage begins with fear itself--fear of the Lord. I Choose Brave reveals a countercultural plan to help you where you are--knee-deep in fears of parenting, the future, your marriage, and a world that feels unstable. When you're feeling fearful, the last thing you need is a social-media meme telling you to simply "power through" your fears. In I Choose Brave, Katie Westenberg digs deep into Scripture and shows that finding the courage to overcome our fears must start with fear of the Lord. Hundreds of passages speak to this foundational truth, yet we have somehow relegated them to antiquity. In sharing her own compelling story of facing her worst fear, Katie serves up theological truth with relatable application. In this book, you will· discover a fresh take on an old truth that displaces fear once and for all· understand why the culture's idea of "fearlessness" is a farce· access the holy courage you were made forWith this new knowledge comes tremendous freedom. Hidden in the cleft of the Rock, the One truly worthy of our fear, you will begin to understand the only path to real courage.

Informations

• Publié par: Baker Publishing Group
• Date de parution: 04 août 2020
• Nombre de lectures: 0
• EAN13: 9781493424931
• Langue: English
• Poids de l'ouvrage: 3 Mo

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Endorsements
“Occasionally you pick up a book that you simply can’t put down. I Choose Brave was one of those books for me. Not only because Katie Westenberg tells such a powerful story, but because her words inspire both beauty and bravery in the same breath. You will not want to miss this life-changing message.”
—Lisa Jacobson, author, cohost of Faithful Life podcast, founder of Club31Women.com
“On a topic that is often confusing and intimidating—the fear of God—Katie speaks biblical truth. I Choose Brave combines riveting storytelling with theological depth. Every Christian struggling to understand what the Bible says about fear should read this book.”
—Phylicia Masonheimer, author of Stop Calling Me Beautiful
“If you are walking through a hard place in your life, struggling with fear, or feeling overwhelmed by a mountain ahead of you, Katie’s book will serve as a welcome reminder to fear God and walk in faith. Her words challenged and convicted me to say yes to boldly believe God, and choose bravery in spite of my own fear.”
—Crystal Paine, New York Times bestselling author, podcaster, and founder of MoneySavingMom.com
“In a world filled with empty promises and self-help mantras, Katie’s message rings both countercultural and scripturally sound: True courage begins with proper fear. It’s only when our hearts begin to grasp the immensity of our Lord God and the beauty of His matchless character that we dare step into the challenges of daily life. Pick up this book and discover your hope, your courage, and your brave in Christ alone.”
—Asheritah Ciuciu, author of Unwrapping the Names of Jesus and Bible and Breakfast: 31 Mornings with Jesus
“Fear. It’s a feeling we all know too well, though we’d rather not. In Scripture we read ‘fear not’ right alongside ‘fear God.’ How can those two things coexist? That is the question Katie so beautifully answers, and in the answer, we find the key to living fearless and free.”
—Jeannie Cunnion, author of Mom Set Free
“Fear has a way of knocking us down and telling us who we are. But we don’t have to let fear win! I Choose Brave is an invitation to face our fears head on and find freedom in an unlikely place—the fear of God. If you are looking for an honest, biblically rich companion to walk alongside you in your journey toward a braver life, this book is for you!”
—Ruth Schwenk, founder of TheBetterMom.com and coauthor of In a Boat in the Middle of a Lake: Trusting the God Who Meets Us in Our Storm
Title Page
Copyright Page
© 2020 by Katie Westenberg
Published by Bethany House Publishers
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Bloomington, Minnesota 55438
www.bethanyhouse.com
Bethany House Publishers is a division of
Baker Publishing Group, Grand Rapids, Michigan
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ISBN 978-1-4934-2493-1
Unless otherwise identified, Scripture quotations are from the New King James Version®. Copyright © 1982 by Thomas Nelson. Used by permission. All rights reserved.
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Cover design by Kara Klontz
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Dedication
FOR MY DAUGHTER
Alison.
I’m not sure how a girl I held
Only once could arrest my heart for a
Lifetime, but I am changed because of you.
Your life brought me to my knees, to the end
Of me, in a way nothing else has. And in that
End, I came face to face with a Holy
God, true freedom in fearing Him.
I am wholly grateful to Him for you.
May these words pay tribute to your
Brief life and bring glory to the only
One worthy. Until I hold you again, Mom.
Contents
Cover 1
Endorsements 2
Title Page 3
Copyright Page 4
Dedication 5
Foreword 9
Introduction: More than a Better Ponytail 13
1. The Truth about Fear 17
2. What Do I Know of Holy? 27
3. When Life Gets Your Attention 37
4. Good-Bye Fearlessness 46
5. Someone Worth Fearing 55
6. Smaller Gods 63
7. On Trend 71
8. Curiosity and Obedience 81
9. Vulnerability 88
10. Peace 95
11. Worship 103
12. Hope 110
13. Humility 117
14. Heritage 125
15. Community 133
16. Give Me Grace 141
17. Necessity 148
18. Intimacy 155
19. Freedom 163
Afterword 171
Discussion Questions 173
Acknowledgments 186
Notes 189
About the Author 192
Back Cover 193
Foreword
Two years ago, on an uncharacteristically chilly June afternoon, I received results that showed a mass on my kidney. According to my doctor, a mass on the kidney is difficult to biopsy. “It’s best to wait and watch,” she advised.
The prescription: Six months of waiting to see if this mass changed size or shape. If it did, it could indicate cancer. If it didn’t, more wait and watch.
At the time, six people called me Mom. We were granting my teenage daughters new independence all while teaching my toddler to write his letters. My littlest daughter spoke a handful of words. Time couldn’t stop in our home for things like potential diagnoses. Diapers needed changing. Teenage hormones needed tending and care. Dinner wasn’t optional.
But my mind . . . my mind roiled with the what-ifs. I refused to search online, and yet the inklings of information I gathered (before restricting myself) haunted my thinking. I tucked my little girl into bed at night, wondering if I would see her wedding day.
That summer, we frequented the pool at the Y, made memories on the soft sand of Hilton Head Island, and Nate and I hiked the Rockies—all while fear crouched. Fear isn’t a gentleman; it doesn’t respect boundaries. There is no vacation from fear.
But I discovered—as a latent fear that had haunted many of my days before the now undeniable ultrasound (it now had a name and a face)—that much more potent than the thousands of thoughts racing through my mind each day were God’s thoughts about himself.
He had answers for my fear in His Word. He had a new fear for me as I found Him there.
The last morning of our three-day stay in Estes Park, Nate and I hiked up to Bierstadt Lake. I sat at the water’s edge, struck by the size of the mountains against my fear. My view gave me proper proportion.
I pleaded with God: Disentangle me from this fear. Relieve me from this web of fear. I’d asked Him that same thing for months, over many conversations, and yet that morning of prayer hangs suspended in my memory like a snow globe.
Sometimes we need a mountain in the background to enable us to remember a particular conversation with God.
And He came. I didn’t garner new attention from Him with my little mountain view, but over weeks and months (many prayed in adoration as I worked my way through Psalm 18, verse by verse, that summer), He received my cries. At the end of my six months of “wait and watch,” I wept over the steering wheel on my drive to the follow-up ultrasound. “You did it, God. You did what I didn’t think you could do,” I kept saying as I choked back my tears.
He replaced my fear with early seeds of the fear of Him.
The ending of that time was not the results of my ultrasound. Instead, it was the shift in my perspective about God. It was the shift in my heart toward Him. He replaced my fear with himself. I saw His kind eyes during those fearful months. He cupped His hand around my bleeding heart, and I felt it. He whispered into my dark.
He held me in my fear. And this was even before I found out the results.
When the ultrasound tech said to me, bewildered, “Well, ma’am, there is nothing there. Are you certain they detected a mass six months ago?” the story remained: God healed my fear. Bigger than His touch to my body were His hands holding my fearful heart. My watching and waiting were more about His near-movement in my heart than about my body.
And so all these months later, I read the words Katie—this friend and storyteller and Truth whisperer—writes, and I wish I’d had this book in my hands the summer of my “wait and watch.”
What you are about to read is the story of a woman who discovered the beautiful, wild fear of God in her dark night.
And yet it’s your story too. And mine. Reading these pages feels like sitting with a sage over coffee and learning language, from His Word and from this friend, for what our heart most craves.
Settle in. These may be your months of “wait and watch.”
Sara Hagerty, bestselling author of Every Bitter Thing Is Sweet , Unseen , and Adore
Introduction
MORE THAN A BETTER PONYTAIL
It’s odd to me that we call it the Ho