Loving Your Wife Well

Matt Jacobson

Description

Imagine if, at the end of the year, despite your busy schedules and all the demands on your time and attention, you and your wife were more in sync, more connected, and more in love than ever before. Sounds amazing, right? That kind of marriage is what is waiting for you as you read through the 52 weekly devotions in Loving Your Wife Well. Each entry includes a specific theme, related Scripture, a powerful devotion, a prayer, thoughts for further reflection, and practical ideas, all designed to help you love, cherish, and serve the woman who shares life's journey with you.Perfect when read alongside your wife's Loving Your Husband Well, this devotional will still transform your relationship even if you work through it on your own.

Informations

• Publié par: Baker Publishing Group
• Date de parution: 27 septembre 2022
• Nombre de lectures: 0
• EAN13: 9781493426713
• Langue: English
• Poids de l'ouvrage: 2 Mo

Extrait

Half Title Page
Also by Matt Jacobson
100 Ways to Love Your Wife
100 Words of Affirmation Your Wife Needs to Hear
100 Ways to Love Your Son
100 Ways to Love Your Daughter
100 Words of Affirmation Your Son Needs to Hear
100 Words of Affirmation Your Daughter Needs to Hear
Title Page
Copyright Page
© 2022 by Faithful Families Ministries, LLC
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The quotation by Eusebius on page 107 is from Michael Haverkamp, “The Scourging at the Pillar,” Build on Rock, March 19, 2019, https://www.buildonrock.org/posts/the-scourging-at-the-pillar/.
Italics in Scripture quotations reflect the author’s emphasis.
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Dedication
To my lovely, biblical wife, who walks in beauty.
—M
Contents
Cover
Half Title Page 1
Also by Matt Jacobson 2
Title Page 3
Copyright Page 4
Dedication 5
Introduction 11
1. Love 15
2. Priority 19
3. Faith 23
4. Healing 27
5. Affirmation 32
6. Spiritual Warfare 36
7. Laughter 41
8. Trust 45
9. Joy 50
10. Like-Minded 54
11. Delight 58
12. Respect 62
13. Humility 66
14. Friendship 70
15. Peace 74
16. Asking Forgiveness 78
17. Granting Forgiveness 82
18. Anxiety 86
19. Service 90
20. Desire 93
21. Patience 97
22. Tenderhearted 101
23 . Sacrifice 106
24. Contentment 110
25. Trials 114
26. Miracles 118
27. Kindness 122
28. Anger 126
29. Hope 130
30. Honesty 134
31. Prayer 138
32. Purity 142
33. Goodness 146
34. Worship 150
35. Thankfulness 154
36. Holiness 158
37. Grace 162
38. Peacemaker 166
39. Covenant 170
40. Remembering 174
41. Generosity 178
42. Cherish 181
43. Trauma 185
44. Gentleness 189
45. Money 192
46. Faithfulness 195
47. Comfort 199
48. Rest 203
49. Mercy 207
50. Self-Control 211
51. Perseverance 215
52. Gospel 219
Closing Note 223
About the Author 225
Back Ads 227
Back Cover 231
Introduction
F riend, your marriage is the most important relationship you will ever have this side of heaven. No aspect of your life will be left untouched by the woman you spend your life with. As husbands, sometimes we forget how the choices we make in our everyday interactions with our wife can impact our marriage. It’s easy to lose sight of the spiritual importance and power of our relationship. That’s why I want to share this book with you. The biblical truths and principles in this devotional have been the bedrock of my marriage to Lisa, and I know they will bless your marriage greatly too.
All the devotions in this book have the same format. Each week focuses on a single subject and includes a Scripture selection, followed by an exploration of the topic. Then there are a few questions for self-reflection and several practical suggestions for how you can apply the principles to your marriage over the coming week. Finally, each devotional reading ends with a sample prayer to help focus your thoughts.
Before you get started, keep in mind that Loving Your Wife Well can be read and applied by itself, but it was created as a companion devotional to Loving Your Husband Well , a book written by my wife, Lisa, for your wife.
Both devotionals follow a similar format, but the content in the devotional designed for wives is different because Lisa is writing to your wife on these topics from her perspective, and I write directly to you from mine . . . and, no, we didn’t compare notes during the writing process!
Again, the devotionals can be read and applied independently, but when you and your wife are going through the same topics and Scriptures (though Lisa and I do use different translations at times), it makes for great discussion throughout the week and the opportunity to grow even closer together.
Maybe you’re one of those men who remain very consistent in their devotional lives. But if it’s not a regular part of your spiritual life and this process is new to you, I’d like to share with you some of my own personal practices for entering into devotional time with the Lord (when I’m vigilant and on my game!).
Here are the things I do:
Be consistent. Pick a specific day and time each week for devotional readings. Monday morning is a good time to begin this weekly devotional.
Avoid looking at my phone or computer. I’ve found it very beneficial not to even look at my phone or open my computer prior to my time meeting with God in the morning. Once in the digital world, it’s difficult to get my focus back on the Lord and His Word, so I don’t even go there.
Remember Whom I’m meeting with. I remind myself that I have the massive privilege to meet with the God of creation, the God of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob, the God of all history, and I prostrate myself before Him—face to the ground—and worship Him. He is worthy.
Seek the Father’s guidance. I pray that He will help me hear His voice through His Word and in my reading, and that He will do His work in my heart for His purposes in my life.
Take the time to read and ponder, think about, and/or meditate on the Scripture reading. I think about what I’ve read and seek to hear the voice of the Spirit. What is it that God is seeking to teach me today?
Pray. I give thanks (never forget to give thanks) and pray about burdens, concerns, and needs, asking for God’s perspective, favor, and protection.
Lift my thoughts in praise. I like to listen to an upbeat praise song or a hymn that reminds me of the power of my God and His goodness.
If you’re reading this devotional along with your wife or by yourself, choose a specific day of the week and a regular time, and stick with it! Read through the devotion and use the rest of the week to think about and apply the principles and suggestions to your own life and relationship with your wife. And if you’re doing them together, be sure to take the lead on finding a time when the two of you can come together to discuss the week’s topic and ways that you can grow together in Christlikeness and be a blessing to each other.
Welcome to the journey of seeking to love your wife well. The fruit of this journey in Lisa’s and my life has been sweet. May God bless you and your wife in the coming year.
1 Love
Beloved, let us love one another, for love is of God; and everyone who loves is born of God and knows God. He who does not love does not know God, for God is love.
1 John 4:7–8 NKJV
W hen asked, “Do you truly love your wife?” a quick response typically follows: “Of course! Yes, I love my wife.” We usually have a general idea of what we mean, but is our idea of loving her the same as what God means when He instructs us to love each other?
Love has many expressions, and there are several kinds of love. But the kind of love God wants you to have for your wife goes far beyond those warm feelings you get on a starry summer night when all is well between the two of you. Any husband can choose to be romantic. But who gives the kind of love the Holy Spirit speaks of in 1 John, where we are told simply to love one another?
If we dig just a little, we see that the writer is speaking of a specific kind of love. This is the love that is from God, that comes without conditions and causes us to sacrifice ourselves for the object of our love. So, the question again: Do you selflessly love and readily sacrifice yourself for your wife?
When your wife gives you what you desire and pleases you with her words and actions, it’s easy to respond in kind and loving ways. It’s the natural thing to do.
But in 1 John, God is requiring something far more, something completely unnatural to the typical way of thinking. He’s asking you to love (your wife) with a different kind of love—a love that costs and is given without the expectation or the requirement of reciprocation. You might call it “Calvary love”—the kind of love Jesus Christ demonstrated on the cross. He gave His life for us while we were still in our sins. We merited nothing, but He still gave. And this is the same love God is calling you to give . . . to your wife.
Is your heart, right now, filled with this love for her? Do you love her without condition? Are you ready and willing—even eager—to lay down your life for her, sacrif