Summary of Leil Lowndes's How to Make Anyone Like You

Everest Media

Description

Please note: This is a companion version & not the original book.
Sample Book Insights:
#1 There are people who are magnets. They attract people simply by their presence. They don’t have anything you don’t have, except for maybe more. So what’s the secret. That’s what this book is about.
#2 Everyone wants to be liked. And it’s not just about having communications skills, social skills, or sex appeal. It’s about having that quintessential quality that makes people like you and want to be part of your world.
#3 The FUD factor is the number-one people repellent. It’s difficult to eliminate it, and most motivational speakers and feel-good gurus have failed to do so.

Sujets

• Interpersonal relationship

Informations

• Publié par: Everest Media LLC
• Date de parution: 28 mars 2022
• Nombre de lectures: 0
• EAN13: 9781669369288
• Langue: English
• Poids de l'ouvrage: 1 Mo

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Insights on Leil Lowndes's How to Make Anyone Like You
Contents Insights from Chapter 1 Insights from Chapter 2 Insights from Chapter 3 Insights from Chapter 4 Insights from Chapter 5 Insights from Chapter 6 Insights from Chapter 7 Insights from Chapter 8
Insights from Chapter 1

#1

There are people who are magnets. They attract people simply by their presence. They don’t have anything you don’t have, except for maybe more. So what’s the secret. That’s what this book is about.

#2

Everyone wants to be liked. And it’s not just about having communications skills, social skills, or sex appeal. It’s about having that quintessential quality that makes people like you and want to be part of your world.

#3

The FUD factor is the number-one people repellent. It’s difficult to eliminate it, and most motivational speakers and feel-good gurus have failed to do so.
Insights from Chapter 2

#1

A true friend is someone you can trust, someone who knows all about you and loves you anyway. Some people have a hard time understanding the importance of same-sex friends or friends who are not sexual.

#2

platonic relationships are between a man and a woman who do not find each other sexually attractive. Men and women can have a platonic relationship, and it is defined as a transparent and sadistic ruse by which attractive and otherwise eligible females destroy the ego and spirit of a male acquaintance who shows romantic interest.

#3

Love between a man and a woman is so mysterious, miraculous, and beautiful that it defies simple definition. It is the most desired state of all, and yet we don’t have control over it.

#4

The emotions between men are suppressed. Some men even have trouble coughing up the words my friend. They feel that if they express their feelings, it will violate their validity.

#5

Women are better at friendship than men, according to many studies. They are more sensitive to each other’s unspoken needs, they genuinely like their female friends better than anyone else, and they talk about their friendships more openly than the less gentle sex.

#6

The Knights of the Round Table are a analogy for the friends you should have in your life. They will slay any dragon of a problem for you, and rescue you when you are in distress.

#7

The most important thing in life is to find love and friendship, and to build a terrific support system. If you are ready to start filling your life with those things, let’s go.
Insights from Chapter 3

#1

The How to Make Anyone Like You contract is between you and the person you are most responsible for in life: yourself. Consider each clause carefully, and if you agree to make the suggestion a part of your life, put your signature under it.

#2

The Notes are where you will find the proof in the original studies. They are written in a strange dialect, which I call Academese. This curious scholarly style gets a 10 in its precision, but only a 2 in clarity for the layman.
Insights from Chapter 4

#1

The three guarantees to becoming a people magnet are to think back to your college or sixth-form days. The Big Man On Campus, the Prom Queen, and the Cheerleaders were the real cool kids. They were admired by everyone, and they wanted to be like them. But, deep down, did they really like them.

#2

The popular kids are not always liked by others, and in some cases, they are even hated. They create a false sense of exclusivity by not ever hanging out with their less popular schoolmates.

#3

To be successful, you must be genuinely confident. You can’t just put on the face of confidence for the competition or for the meeting or the party.