Powerful Purpose of Introverts

Holley Gerth

Description

Would it surprise you to know that Joanna Gaines, Abraham Lincoln, Albert Einstein, Oprah, Jerry Seinfeld, C. S. Lewis, Max Lucado, and Meryl Streep are all introverts? Even though introverts make up half the population, most people still don't fully understand what it means to be one. Research shows the qualities introverts may see as struggles can be their greatest strengths. Introverts don't need to act more like extroverts to thrive, lead, and make a difference. Instead, they need to truly understand who God created them to be so they can avoid pitfalls like insecurity or anxiety and bravely offer their gifts to the world.In this transformative book, Holley Gerth dives into the brain science behind introversion to help you understand the psychological, relational, and spiritual aspects of being an introvert. She explores how introverts can make meaningful connections, experience quiet confidence, cultivate soul-filling solitude, exercise unexpected influence, and much more.If you're an introvert, or if you love, lead, or share life with an introvert, you need this empowering, insightful book!

Sujets

• Philosophie et théologie
• Popular psychology

Informations

• Publié par: Baker Publishing Group
• Date de parution: 15 septembre 2020
• Nombre de lectures: 0
• EAN13: 9781441245250
• Langue: English
• Poids de l'ouvrage: 8 Mo

Extrait

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Endorsements
“Holley Gerth is a deeply wise and trusted guide into what it means to thrive as an introvert. Holley is not only a true sage, but she also lives the truth, health, and wholeness of which she writes. An invitation to journey with her toward genuine growth and flourishing should not be missed. Practical, researched, and profoundly helpful, these pages will be a relief, an epiphany, a manifesto for any introvert.”
Ann Voskamp , New York Times bestselling author of The Broken Way and One Thousand Gifts
“Through her wisdom and insight, Holley Gerth has given us a powerful resource on how to see, develop, and champion the unique voice and gifts God has given introverts. If you are an introvert, are married to one, have kids who are introverts, or work with introverts—you don’t want to miss this gift to us all. A masterful work emphasizing their personhood, power, strength, and resilience.”
Dr. Tim Clinton , president of the American Association of Christian Counselors
“As an introvert, I am profoundly grateful for this book. Understanding and embracing how God has made us is a liberating journey. If you are an introvert or love an introvert, this book could be a relational game changer.”
Sheila Walsh , cohost of LIFE Today and bestselling author of Praying Women
“I am an extrovert surrounded by a family of introverts, so I was grateful to see this book. Introverts offer so much to their families and the world! In The Powerful Purpose of Introverts , Holley Gerth uses personal illustrations, stories of famous introverts, and a fascinating look at neuroscience to better explain and celebrate introverts. Whether you are an introvert who needs to find your power or someone like me who wants to better love and understand the introverts around you, you’ll find this book invaluable.”
Shaunti Feldhahn , social researcher and bestselling author of For Women Only
“Very few people have the mix of compassion, boldness, and emotional intelligence to speak so powerfully to the hearts of introverts the way Holley does. Add to that her deep heart for God and his purposes, and you have a book that will lift your spirits, give you life, and restore the broken little places in your sense of purpose. If you’re an introvert—and if you’ve ever felt invisible or insignificant just for being you—this is your new guidebook for being the very best version of yourself for all the people you love the most.”
Brandon Cox , lead pastor of Grace Hills Church and editor of Pastors.com
“Holley has poured research, encouragement, and attentive care into these pages. I am an introvert. Through these pages, I became more visible and distinguishable—to myself! Let us understand how we’ve been created so we can fully surrender to the function of our beautiful design.”
Lucretia Berry , PhD, educator, author, and creator of Brownicity: Many Hues, One Humanity
“As a board-certified clinical neuropsychologist, author, and speaker, I can tell you that one of the biggest issues I see people facing is not feeling comfortable in their God-given ‘skin.’ Even more so for introverts, who often believe they are ‘not enough’ when compared to their extrovert counterparts. Holley Gerth’s newest book is a much-needed resource. The Powerful Purpose of Introverts unpacks what introversion is, how it is manifested, and how we can celebrate the gifts introverts bring to a family, a project, or a gathering. If you are an introvert, Holley’s book celebrates you and will help you celebrate your God-given strengths and purpose too. If you are an extrovert, this book will help you appreciate the unique giftings of the introverts in your life.”
Dr. Michelle Bengtson , clinical neuropsychologist, international speaker, and author of Hope Prevails and Breaking Anxiety’ s Grip
Other Works by Holley Gerth
You’re Already Amazing
Do You Know You’re Already Amazing?
You’re Made for a God-Sized Dream
You’re Going to Be Okay
What Your Heart Needs for the Hard Days
You’re Loved No Matter What
Fiercehearted
Hope Your Heart Needs
Strong, Brave, Loved
Title Page
Copyright Page
© 2020 by Holley, Inc.
Published by Revell
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Ebook edition created 2020
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Contents
Cover 1
Endorsements 2
Other Works by Holley Gerth 4
Title Page 5
Copyright Page 6
Introduction 9
1. What Being an Introvert Really Means 15
2. A Deeper Look at Who You Are 29
3. Strategic Solitude 46
4. Meaningful Connection 58
5. Genuine Influence 69
6. Sacred Confidence 78
7. True Well-Being 87
8. Hard-Won Resilience 99
9. Sharp Thinking 116
10. Insightful Perception 132
11. Intentional Energy 142
12. Live Your Powerful Purpose 159
Keep Moving Forward 173
Book Club Questions 175
A Thank-You Note to Extroverts 187
Acknowledgments 189
Notes 191
About Holley 203
Back Ads 204
Back Cover 209
Introduction
H ow fast can you identify introverts and extroverts? Ready, set, go . . .
Catherine reviews her to-do list as she walks to work. Lead meeting, plan travel, write speech. She passes a woman standing alone on a street corner. Catherine smells whiskey and perfume, sees defiance in the crossed arms, senses the ache. The list waits. Years later, the woman from the corner will attend Catherine’s funeral as one of fifty thousand mourners.
Alex walks into a crowded conference room, grabs one of the last pieces of birthday cake, and retreats to a corner to check his phone. He’s worked here for a decade and still feels like a stranger. His performance reviews are average, the pay sufficient, the benefits fine, but he wrestles with a vague dissatisfaction. He rubs a knot in his shoulder that won’t let loose and looks at the clock, thinking, How long until I go home?
Lewis sits with a circle of friends at a café. They’ve met here for over a decade as a mastermind group. Each person brings a project they’re working on, and today John wants feedback. The conversation intensifies as the group offers opinions and suggestions, sidetracks into personal updates, and draws the attention of those at other tables with a round of laughter.
Emma looks up and sees Lewis deep in conversation with his friend John. She asks herself, “When’s the last time I really connected with someone?” Loneliness rises in her, but she pushes it away. I enjoy time alone , she thinks. It’s better this way . But sometimes the quiet of her apartment gets loud.
Liz, a senior marketing manager, shakes hands with people at the end of a whirlwind ten-day, multicity event she coordinated. Next to her is a cocoa farmer from Ghana who’s also a co-owner of the company. The two of them share a business model that focuses on fair trade, empowerment, and social impact that affects thousands of lives around the world.
Joe’s wife asks, “Coming to bed?” He says what he does every night, “Soon.” No one knows Joe created computer code that could transform the way people communicate. It’s complete, but he keeps reviewing it. He can’t let go of perfection, risk rejection. A familiar anxiety surrounds him as he drifts off to sleep.
So, which of these people are introverts?
The answer you might not expect: all of them.
The difference between the people in these situations isn’t whether they’re introverts or extroverts. It’s whether they’ve learned how to overcome their struggles and embrace their God-given strengths. Alex, Emma, and Joe view their introvert tendencies as limiting, while Catherine, Lewis, and Liz experience them as em