Warpaint

Stephanie Arceneaux

Description

The author shares her personal story as she raises her nine-year-old identical twin daughters.

If you are raising a daughter in the 21st century Warpaint is the book for you. The challenges our daughters face are countless. Social media plays a huge role in influencing them. Their self-worth, identity, and destiny are under attack.

Mothers often question their ability to “bring up their children in the nurture and the admonition of the Lord” Ephesians 6:4 (KJV). The answer is a firm foundation in God’s Word and His truth.

The author shares her personal story as she raises her nine-year-old identical twin daughters. She shares her hopes and dreams for them: to know their worth in Christ Jesus, to embrace their uniqueness, and to equip them with the Word of God to “Fight the Good Fight.” She also shares her own struggles of being the mother God has called her to be. Over a hundred scriptures are woven into the pages of Warpaint to encourage and empower mothers and daughters alike.

Sujets

• Religion
• Christianisme
• Vie de famille
• Parentalité et Éducation des Enfants
• Christianity
• Parenting
• Philosophie et théologie
• Religious
• Inspirational
• Personal Growth
• Christian Living

Informations

• Publié par: WestBow Press
• Date de parution: 16 octobre 2022
• Nombre de lectures: 0
• EAN13: 9781664274266
• Langue: English

Extrait

Warpaint
Raising a generation of daughters to know their worth in Christ Jesus, encouraging them to embrace their uniqueness, and empowering them with the Word of God to fight the good fight.
STEPHANIE ARCENEAUX


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ISBN: 978-1-6642-7427-3 (sc)
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Library of Congress Control Number: 2022914045
 
 
 
WestBow Press rev. date: 10/12/2022
CONTENTS
Dedication
Introduction
Chapter 1 The Title
Chapter 2 What Is Beauty?
Chapter 3 God’s Word Is Truth
Chapter 4 Uniqueness
Chapter 5 An Author’s Confession
Chapter 6 Drama vs. Peace
Chapter 7 Am I a Good Mom?
Chapter 8 Being A Role Model
Chapter 9 Be Bold Like Queen Esther
Chapter 10 The Armor of God
Chapter 11 Destiny
Chapter 12 Mates and Friends
Chapter 13 The Ultimate Deception
Conclusion
DEDICATION
I dedicate this book to my daughters, Sarah Ashton and Sophie Annabelle. You are my miracle babies and my greatest gift. You have filled my heart and my life with love and joy. I’m so thankful and amazed that God chose me to be your mother. This book is my legacy that I leave to you.
Lord, I will worship you with extended hands as my whole heart explodes with praise! I will tell everyone everywhere about your wonderful works and how your marvelous miracles exceed expectations.
Psalm 9:1 (TPT)
INTRODUCTION
Raising a generation of daughters to know their worth in Christ Jesus, encouraging them to embrace and celebrate their uniqueness, and empowering them with the Word of God to fight the good fight.
This is not a “how to” book. I am in no way an expert in child rearing practices. I didn’t even become a parent until I was forty-two years old. Since I was older when I had my girls, I believed that I should have been wiser about parenting, but I experienced parenthood like everyone else, you learn as you go. You make mistakes along the way, and pray that you haven’t scarred your children for life.
For the past nine years, I’ve watched my identical twin daughters, Sarah and Sophie, grow from these teeny tiny premature babies into these beautiful, smart, creative, tall, skinny mini-mes; each one possessing their own combination of my personality traits. As a mother, I want the best for my daughters, but when I look at the world in which we live today, I have pause for concern about the struggles and difficulties facing them as they grow older.
This world can be a scary place for our innocent little girls. As a mother, I want to protect my daughters from the pains, the harsh realities, and any kind of mistreatment. The world has dramatically changed since I was a child; it seems more mixed-up than ever.
The world’s influences on our daughters come in many forms; the traditional forms are the television shows they watch and the advertisements they see, the music they listen to, books and magazines they read, and the friends and peers they spend time with. However, today the biggest influence on our children is social media which I see as a blessing and a curse, simultaneously. All of these sources are bombarding our children with one message: who the world says they should be.
The world tells our daughters what they should look like, what type of clothing they should wear, how they should style their hair and makeup, what kind of handbag they should carry, and what kind of car they should drive. The world says that you are only worthy, accepted, or important if you follow these trends. These are some of the more superficial forms of self-worth that the world promotes.
The world will try and tell our daughters what to believe about religion, politics, relationships, marriage, vocation, and gender. But as a mother and a Christian, I believe that it is my responsibility to make sure that my daughters’ identities and self-worth are solely based on the truth of God’s Word and who He says they are. I am not leaving that job to anyone else.
The world’s opinions and ideologies change like the wind and shifting sand, but the Word of God does not change and therefore creates a solid foundation for my daughters and their lives. This is of significant importance to me because I believe that our parenting should be purpose driven and intentional. God has gifted me with these two precious souls that I must nurture, guide, and encourage along their journey. In my book, Wait Is a Four-Letter Word , I reference the scripture in James 1:17 (NIV) “Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows,” because my daughters were miracle babies whom I prayed for, for 10 years. Receiving such an amazing gift from God only strengthened my resolve to “bring [them] up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord” Ephesians 6:4 (KJV).
I know that “God is not a god of confusion but of peace” I Corinthians 14:33 (ESV). However, what I see in our world today is utter chaos and confusion. So many young women seem lost, adrift on the uncertain seas of life, and confused about who they are and what their purpose is. This continual aimless wandering must surely feel lonely and often tragically hopeless.
I dare say it, but it is the truth; we are living in an era of history more than ever when right seems wrong and wrong seems right.
I want more for my daughters than what the world has to offer them. I want what God has for them; an amazing life, an exciting journey, hundreds of promises to fill their lives with joy and steadfast hope. I want them to know that they are unique, and that God has called them for a specific purpose on this earth, an inconceivable plan that when fulfilled, will literally leave them speechless.
I know the dreams I have for my daughters sound quite lofty, and maybe even unrealistic or unattainable. I also realize that Sarah and Sophie have to be willing participants in these dreams. But God has birthed this dream inside me, and I know, that I know, that I know, when God has a plan for your daughters’ lives, you can be 100% certain He will bring it to pass.
Indeed I have spoken it; I will also bring it to pass. I have purposed it; I will also do it. Isaiah 46:11 (NKJV)
Being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus. Philippians 1:6 (NIV)
1

THE TITLE
G rowing up I was always the tall, skinny, lanky, and awkward kid. I was always the tallest, or one of the tallest girls in my class. I was always taller than many of the boys, and I always had to stand in the back row with the boys for our school class picture. I was teased and made fun of sometimes, which of course, hurt my feelings. One time this mean girl called me Big Bird, obviously because I had really long, skinny, legs. When I told my mom about the name calling, she always said the mean girl was probably jealous of me, so I shouldn’t let it bother me. I tried not to let the name calling bother me, but in reality, those words hurt.
I thought I had a fairly good self-esteem growing up. My parents always encouraged my brothers and I to do our best, whether it was: schoolwork, athletics, band, or any activity that we were involved in. I took ballet, tap, and twirling when I was little, but because my mom would wake me up from my nap to take me to dance, I would cry and complain that I didn’t want to go. I really loved my naps back then and I still love my naps now, so napping took precedence over any other activities. After several week