Bangkok Busted: You Die for Sure

William John Stapleton

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The unique enterprise A Sense Of Place Publishing has just released its newest publication, Bangkok Busted: You Die For Sure. This is a deeply personal story by author William John Stapleton on the fallout after he wrote a book about being robbed, lied to and deceived by one of the city's go-go boys and the subsequent personal distress and widespread public ridicule he endured.

Few foreigners are crazy brave or stupidly insane enough to tell their often embarrassing and humiliating stories of falling for the practiced love lies peddled to them by Thai sex workers.

Such stories have resulted on the heterosexual side of the ledger in books such as My Private Dancer and Confessions of a Bangkok Private Eye. In the author's case he wrote The Twilight Soi, a book which made him a reviled figure by the Thai public who swallowed the lie that the book was an insult to Thailand, to its culture and to its sex workers. It is not and was never intended to be any such thing.

"Most people in Asia cannot imagine why anybody would write a story admitting to their own stupidity and misguided conduct in falling for the 'I love you very much I miss you very much' patter of their prostitutes, either male or female," Stapleton says. "For a start, I first wrote the Twilight Soi and now Bangkok Busted: You Die For Sure because painters paint, builders build and writers write, and that's what do.

"The story I related is so bizarre that I would not have believed it if it had not happened to me. The Thais were outraged that a foreigner as imperfect as myself should object to being robbed, cheated and publicly ridiculed. But I wanted to tell this story partly because I did not want what happened to me to happen to anyone else.

"These men often make easy prey. They are lonely, they are out of their own comfort zones and away from the spying eyes of friends, family and work colleagues, often are without obligations of work or children for the first time in their lives, and run off the rails in the torrid atmosphere of Asia and its bars. They often enough end up suiciding."

Sujets

• Gay Studies
• LGBTQ+ Studies
• Social Science
• Sociologie, société et politique

Informations

• Publié par: eBookIt.com
• Date de parution: 26 avril 2013
• Nombre de lectures: 0
• EAN13: 9781456615024
• Langue: English

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Bangkok Busted:
You Die for Sure
 
 
by
William John Stapleton

Copyright 2013 William John Stapleton,
All rights reserved.
 
 
ISBN-13: 978-1-4566-1502-4
 
 
No part of this book may be reproduced in any form or by any electronic or mechanical means including information storage and retrieval systems, without permission in writing from the author. The only exception is by a reviewer, who may quote short excerpts in a review.
LANDING WHERE ?
Where are we? he asked one of the hostesses on the Thai Airways flight after he woke from a brief alcohol induced sleep.
His reputation for instability, so ably fanned by those he had offended, already preceded him. Michael was surprised the airline's crew had let him drink at all, much less knock himself out.
“We are one hour from landing, sir,” she responded in a politely dismissive tone, clearly aware of his identity.
“Landing where?” he asked.
“Sydney,” she replied, shaking her head and saying loudly enough for him to hear, “no wonder”.
Michael’s heart hit the floor as he watched the hostess continue her way up the aisle, collecting the detritus from yet another of the traveling herds which had filled the world's skies and beaches since he first began traveling half a century ago.
Sydney!
Now was the time, fractured, out of the story line, an unplanned curve in history. He had never felt so lost. No longer bound by children, a regular job or the various therapeutic programs which once kept him functioning as a semi-normal individual, he had no idea of his next move, his motives, or in a very real sense even who he was.
Once satisfied with observer status, even that no longer survived.
“I suppose he will end up in the harbor one day,” a man had commented on the plane, dismissing as absurd the audacity and stupidity he showed in daring to comment on the regions criminal organizations; perhaps driven beyond all normal boundaries of self-preservation by the suicidal bender he had embarked upon.
Michael had never wanted to see the so-called Harbor City or the beauties of its much spruiked beaches, Opera House or Bridge everagain.
The claim Australians regularly make that they live in the best country in the world never rang true for him.
He had not felt at home there for years and experienced no sense of home-coming, despite the extremity of the circumstances.
When the job evaporated and the children grew old enough to look after themselves Sydney, the city he had once loved so much for its wild parties and peculiar sense of having never meant to be there, walled as it was by sandstone cliffs and perched on the edge of the most ancient of continents, became nothing but a brightly colored trap.
Christmas and New Year in Australia sounded romantic enough.
But as the London papers crowed, the Great Southern Land's famous summer of sun, sex and surf had disappeared.
The plane taxied through squalls of cold rain to exactly where he did not want to be: home under leaden skies.
As things turned out, it did not stop raining for weeks over the Christmas holiday period, when Sydney's beaches are usually crowded with sun lovers from all over the world, baking themselves brown. In contrast the Thais do everything they can to lighten their skin tones, tanned skin being associated with peasants working in the field.
The reality of thumping back into the homeland to which he had determined never to return struck quickly.
After some time pacing around the terminal trying to locate the shuttle bus driver, he endured the ride through all too familiar landscapes, from the cluttered industrial and commercial mishmash of buildings in Sydney's inner-west to the barrenness of endless miles of neat, heartless suburbia.
While he stared blankly at the landscapes through which they passed, his spirits sank even lower, if that was possible.
For a start, particularly after his acclimatization to the heat of Asia over the past two years, he felt cold, the last thing one expects of an Australian summer.
Michael was still fleeing something he could not see, the false accusations of pedophilia concocted by Aek and the bar X-Size in Bangkok and Surai from the Happy Café in Phnom Penh, the handsome, charismatic, sex mad and money hungry bastard he had slept with briefly and who subsequently kept breaking into his apartment and rifling through his belongings and his computer. Anything to please the criminals of Bangkok.
Their first attempts at denigration, driven by the fact he had dared to write about a routine experienced by many foreigners, of being robbed and deceived by one of their sex workers, had turned his life in Bangkok into a living hell.
They had, without any evidence, called him Thailand’s number one drug driver. He could barely walk five feet without being abused.
The “Spiderman” accusations came later, in Cambodia, where such accusations were immediately life threatening amidst a population which already distrusted foreign tourists, most particularly older men on their own.
Because of the country’s history of attracting foreigners who liked their prey younger than young, they already glared at single foreign men as if they were about to eat their children.
Spiderman or drug dealer, his enemies couldn’t make up their minds. Neither claim was true but they did prove one thing. That the claims he had made were true.
The criminal thugs who ran the sex trade in Phnom Penh and Bangkok, so blatantly linked to the drug trade and protected by the respective country’s police, would stoop to any level to attempt to discredit someone who had dared to tell a common story from personal experience about being robbed and deceived.
His head swirled with exotic images and question marks over what had h appened and why; how much he was to blame and how much he could shift responsibility onto the astonishing bastardry which had been directed at him.
"You die for sure," was one of the most common threats he received.
There were many things Michael still did not understand about the events of the previo us year; including why he had suffered such excessive levels of surveillance, harassment and vitriol.
Warren Olsen had already put it far more simply than he could in his book Confessions of a Bangkok Private Eye: “How do you tell when a Thai sex worker is lying? When their lips are moving. What if their lips are not moving? They’re planning the next lie.”
All the surveillance proved was that he was not the most orthodox of tourists, as if Thailand was full of saintly visitors who came there to look at the country’s many beautiful temples. The country was full of foreign men there for one purpose only, to party to excess. Some of these men were truly disgusting creatures, and he shared the locals distaste for them.
For decades Thailand had been known for its relaxed attitudes to prostitution and recreational drug use. Forty years before, amongst the cognoscenti, the country had been renowned for having the world’s best heroin.
The mules carrying a kilogram at a time in swallowed balloons in return for $30,000 a trip had been an underground characteristic of the trade between Australia and Thailand until recent times when detection techniques improved.
Why was anyone pretending sainthood?
The Thais vindictive and outlandishly dishonest behavior in demonizing him while mythologizing and turning into a cultural icon in every discotheque in the land sex worker who had so successfully ripped him off had already proven the truth of what he had been saying.
And now he was back in Australia, the country to which he had never intended to return.
What passed as refuge was in reality the very last retreat.
He was not in any fit state to see or talk to anybody, much less those he knew intimately; and did not know how long he could survive in this place where he did not want to be.
From the colorful crowds of Asian cities he was suddenly facing nobody but his aging mother. Her religion forbade remarriage and thus she had lived alone for years in the same house. As far as he could see, she had barely changed in appearance or personal habits in 20 plus years.
She still held the beliefs derived from the same fundamentalist branch of Christianity which had been the bane of his youth; its end time rhetoric having added to his own free floating anxiety and sense of impending doom.
As he was to discover the Land of Smiles was better named The Land of Hungry Ghosts; and many Thais also felt an unnamed fear, clinging closely to each other.
Author Dean Koontz put it thus: “With higher intelligence comes an awareness of the complexity of the world, and from this awareness arises a sense of mystery, wonder. Superstition is the darker side of wonder. Creatures with simple intelligence fear only real things, such as their natural predators. But those of us who have higher cognitive abilities are able to torture ourselves with an infinite menagerie of imaginary threats: ghosts, goblins and vampires…”
Fortunately religion was not discussed.
There was nothing worth watching on television, outside only sleet gray skies and freezing temperatures. Through the windows he watched boiling clouds sweeping over the nearby Macquarie Pass, the road which had been cut into the steep rise of the Great Dividing Range from the coastal plains. The hills served as a backdrop to the suburban sprawl which even in the two years he had been away had spread even further up and down the coast.
The first Crisco advertisement he saw on television, promising the bounty of the season, Christmas hampers crammed with hams and puddings, for those sensible enough to have signed up for the company’s payment plan, convinced him he had entered the world of the truly ordinary. That Australia could be as utterly mundane as he remembered.
The accents were the same, the advertisements exactly as he remembered. Little, it seemed, had changed in the time he had been away.
Tacky is as tacky was.
The politicians, from w