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STORYTIME in INDIA
Map of India and Nepal, showing the Bhojpuri Region. By Jordan Blekking .
STORYTIME in INDIA

Wedding Songs, Victorian Tales, and the Ethnographic Experience
HELEN PRISCILLA MYERS and UMESH CHANDRA PANDEY
INDIANA UNIVERSITY PRESS
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To the memory of our mothers, Elsie Phillips Myers Stainton Atarpyari Pandey
CONTENTS
ACKNOWLEDGMENTS
In which thanks are given for the many people who helped in the creation of this book .
LIST OF SONGS AND ACCESSING THE AUDIO FILES
In which the reader receives instructions on how to listen to Gangajali singing the songs encountered throughout this book .

Prologue
In which the structure of the book and the purpose of the book are explained .
Introduction : Umesh Explains Storytime
In which Umesh tells the meaning of storytime in the Indian village .
1. A Fulbright Grant to Banaras, India
In which Helen has just returned to Banaras, India, from her mother s funeral. To solace herself, she starts to read an old favorite , The Eustace Diamonds, by Anthony Trollope. She recalls how her mother and she enjoyed this book together .
2. Toast
Umesh and Helen share a simple evening meal of tea and toast. Helen tells about meeting Umesh in 1986, about their work together, and about Umesh s medical problems. We awaken in the morning and have breakfast-again, tea and toast .
Interlude I: Lizzie Greystock
In which we meet Lizzie Greystock from The Eustace Diamonds, by Anthony Trollope. Helen tries reading this first chapter about Lizzie and her jewelry to Umesh. Umesh immediately loves Lizzie s story and cares about her fate. And he explains why such ornaments that please Lizzie are also important in India. He is quite ready to confront the postcolonial white other .
3. Setting Up Our Apartment in Banaras, 2007
In which Umesh tells how we furnished our apartment in Banaras. We went shopping to buy the items that Umesh considered necessary for our nine-month stay .
4. The Daily Routine
In which Helen describes our working routine for 2007, and we decide to tackle the translation into English of four thousand pages of Bhojpuri poetry .
Interlude II: Sir Florian
In which Helen continues reading chapter 1 from The Eustace Diamonds to Umesh. Umesh reflects on the difference between modern Indian weddings and weddings in Victorian England. Umesh discusses the issue of a widow remarrying in today s India. More short stories are told .
5. Arranging an Indian Wedding
In which the many challenges of having a daughter are described by Umesh. He also explains how, nowadays, the parents of the bridegroom are looking for a well-educated bride. It was not so in the past, when most girls were denied an education. So the situation in modern India shows much progress on women s issues .
6. The Search for a Boy
In which Umesh explains how the girl s father makes a search for a suitable husband for his daughter. The mother and the daughter will press the father to find a handsome groom. But Umesh explains that a daughter cannot live off handsomeness. She cannot lick it, he says .
7. Helen and Umesh Meet
In which Helen and Umesh first meet in the Archive and Research Centre for Ethnomusicology, New Delhi. The year was 1986, and the day was October 31, Halloween. Umesh declares that he would like to be in heaven .
8. Viewing the Bride
In which Umesh tells about how the prospective bride is brought to the groom and his family to be examined. The boy s family is looking to see if the girl is deformed-if she limps or if she stutters. Although the girl is feeling extremely shy, her face is uncovered for all to see .
9. The Tilak Talk Begins
In which Umesh explains how the talk about money begins between the father of the girl and the father of the boy. If they are in agreement, they start planning for the tilak ceremony. The middleman tells the family of the girl what to bring for the tilak according to the customs of the boy s village .
10. Gangajali
We jump back to July 1989, when we first meet our heroine, Gangajali. Helen explains to Gangajali how she can help with her research if she can sing wedding songs. Gangajali says she would be happy to do that. Gangajali explains that she knows how to face the storm from the beginning to the end.
11. The Tilak , Explained by Umesh
In which Umesh explains the preparations in the girl s home to go to the boy s side for the tilak ceremony. The girl s side is expected to bring many items for the boy. The receipts are kept for all the items that the girl s side brings, and everybody in the village knows exactly how much money the girl s father has spent on his daughter s wedding .
12. Song Journey
In which Helen and Umesh begin their search by bicycle rickshaw for a village outside Banaras in which to conduct research. Suddenly, along a lane, they happen upon a group of women winnowing grain. Helen jumps off the rickshaw and dashes toward them with a tape recorder in her hand. Their boss directs them to Banaras Hindu University to meet with Dr. Ram Sagar Singh .
13. Tilak Songs
In which Gangajali sings three songs for the tilak ceremony. The first is a religious song about the wedding of Lord Shiva. Then following are two songs about the tilak ceremony proper and the gifts to be given. In 2007, we translate these three songs, and it proves to be difficult and time consuming .
14. Dress Him in a Bra and Bodice : Gali for the Tilak
In which Gangajali sings eight gali, loving women s songs of abuse and joking (and swearing) sung at the tilak ceremony. We hear a few dirty words in the songs .
15. The Songs Become Personal
Gangajali sings of how Helen was sold by her brother James to the Inspector of Police for five rupees. And in song she tells how Helen was dragged into the chickpea field by the Bear of Ballia .
16. We Sell Dreams
In which Umesh explains how village folk compare their weddings to the weddings of ancient kings and queens and to Hindu gods and goddesses. While they may sing about pure pearls, in fact, the village people have only rice. The great Bollywood star Raj Kapoor said, We sell dreams.
17. Saguni Songs: This Night Is Ours
In which Gangajali sings a number of auspicious sagun songs. Gangajali includes sagun regarding Gauri and Shiva and also those honoring Sita and Ram .
Interlude III: Lady Eustace
In which Umesh explains the character of Lizzie Eustace .
18. Umesh Remembers Charlotte Wiser
In which Umesh recalls loving memories of Dadi, Charlotte Wiser, who lived in his home for many years. He tells of her writing methods while she was composing the classic anthropological ethnography Behind Mud Walls.
19. Matikor: Sashi Interrupts, but We Do Not Hear A Mare Has Pissed
In which Gangajali sings songs for the matikor ceremony during which Mother Earth is worshiped. A gali is sung for Helen, who is carried off into the forest by an old gray wolf. All these songs are explained by Umesh. Sashi and Gangajali chatter with each other throughout, and this is quite amusing .
20. Helen s Pounding Pot
In which Gangajali sings two gali songs that are sung after the matikor ceremony. Helen s vagina is sung of, and Helen s pounding pot is considered very deep. All these funny gali are discussed by Gangajali, Sashi, and Umesh. Everybody enjoys Sashi s enthusiasm for these silly songs .
21. Umesh Explains Gali
In which Umesh explains that gali songs are loving and are not intended to hurt anyone. Certainly, village wives could never do this in normal life, but at the time of a wedding, they are allowed to hurl these insults at almost any target .
Interlude IV: Lucy Morris
In which we learn about Lucy Morris. Confusion presents itself: who is the heroine of the tale? Trollope comments, that heroine shall not be Lady Eustace . The real heroine shall stalk in among us at some considerably later period of the narrative, when the writer shall have accustomed himself to the flow of words, and have worked himself up to a state of mind fit for the reception of noble acting and noble speaking.
22. The Kalas and the Harish
In which Gangajali sings songs for the preparation of the altar ( chauk ) and decorating the wedding pitcher ( kalas ). The scene shifts to Banaras 2007, when Helen and Umesh pause their translation work and enjoy a few snacks .
23. Arranging a Priest
In which Umesh explains that the village priest may be good enough for the smaller ceremonies. However, for the actual wedding ceremony, a good priest from the district town should be hired .
24. Wedding Expense