Summary of Shari Y. Manning's Loving Someone with Borderline Personality Disorder

Everest Media

Description

Please note: This is a companion version & not the original book.
Sample Book Insights:
#1 Someone you know recently married a woman, but soon began to change. The person was advised to leave the marriage, but didn’t. His wife was diagnosed with borderline personality disorder.
#2 You’ve just been married to a woman who has borderline personality disorder. You were advised to leave the marriage, but you didn’t. You’re now lost, and you don’t know who you are anymore.
#3 You may find yourself getting overinvolved with your wife’s friends, family, or even her ex-boyfriends.
#4 You’re married to someone with borderline personality disorder. You’re experiencing a lot of the same things Brad is, like getting involved with your wife’s friends and family, and feeling like you’re always doing something wrong.

Sujets

• Sociologie, société et politique
• Social Science
• Social Work

Informations

• Publié par: Everest Media LLC
• Date de parution: 08 octobre 2022
• Nombre de lectures: 0
• EAN13: 9798350032376
• Langue: English
• Poids de l'ouvrage: 1 Mo

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Insights on Shari Y. Manning's Loving Someone with Borderline Personality Disorder
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Insights from Chapter 1

#1

Someone you know recently married a woman, but soon began to change. The person was advised to leave the marriage, but didn’t. His wife was diagnosed with borderline personality disorder.

#2

You’ve just been married to a woman who has borderline personality disorder. You were advised to leave the marriage, but you didn’t. You’re now lost, and you don’t know who you are anymore.

#3

You may find yourself getting overinvolved with your wife’s friends, family, or even her ex-boyfriends.

#4

You’re married to someone with borderline personality disorder. You’re experiencing a lot of the same things Brad is, like getting involved with your wife’s friends and family, and feeling like you’re always doing something wrong.

#5

if you’re going to take on the challenge of managing your partner’s BPD, you have to have a lot of patience, and you have to know that the extreme emotions and their accompanying behaviors are not deliberate attempts to lose or ruin relationships.

#6

The DSM-IV-TR diagnosis of borderline personality disorder is difficult to pin down and treat, and it doesn’t help that the term is so widely used. The more accurate and helpful Marsha M. Linehan’s diagnosis is, the less helpful it is in explaining the disorder.

#7

As difficult as it may be, try not to get entangled in rehashing painful events. Just try to notice patterns. This is a first step toward regaining your balance and becoming unlost.

#8

People with BPD have fast, extreme emotions that are difficult to predict, and they are typically very intense.

#9

It may feel like you’re always doing something wrong if your loved one has borderline personality disorder, but you have to understand that these extreme emotions and their accompanying behaviors are not deliberate attempts to lose or ruin relationships.

#10

People with BPD have fast, intense emotions that are difficult to predict, and they are typically very intense. They struggle in relationships, and they’re intensely afraid that people will leave them.

#11

It’s not your fault that your partner has borderline personality disorder, and you have to understand that their extreme emotions and behaviors are not deliberate attempts to lose or ruin relationships.

#12

You have to understand that your partner’s extreme emotions and behaviors are not deliberate attempts to lose or ruin relationships. Their fast, intense emotions can be difficult to predict, and they are typically very intense.

#13

People with BPD have fast, intense emotions that are difficult to predict and very intense. They struggle in relationships, and they’re intensely afraid that people will leave them.

#14

People with BPD have fast, intense emotions that are difficult to predict and very intense. They struggle in relationships, and they’re intensely afraid that people will leave them.

#15

If you’re trying to understand your partner’s suicidal or self-harm behaviors, understand that they’re not often calculated attempts to manipulate you or others. They’re often the result of intense emotional states that build until the person thinks she might burst with pain.

#16

People with BPD have intense emotions that are difficult to predict and very intense. They struggle in relationships, and they’re intensely afraid that people will leave them.

#17

People with BPD have fast, intense emotions that are difficult to predict and very intense. They struggle in relationships, and they’re intensely afraid that people will leave them.

#18

People with BPD have intense emotions that are difficult to predict and very intense. They struggle in relationships, and they’re intensely afraid that people will leave them.

#19

It’s a good idea to be aware of these dysregulations, so you can keep your loved ones safe and yourself out of trouble.

#20

People with BPD have intense emotions that are difficult to predict and very intense. They struggle in relationships, and they’re intensely afraid that people will leave them.

#21

If you have a loved one who struggles with BPD, try to stay aware of their intense emotional states and the fact that they may appear to be preoccupied with whether or not you are about to leave them.

#22

If you have a loved one with BPD, try to stay aware of their intense emotional states and the fact that they may appear to be preoccupied with whether or not you are about to leave them.

#23

People with BPD have intense emotions that are difficult to predict and very intense. They struggle in relationships, and they’re intensely afraid that people will leave them.

#24

If you have a loved one with BPD, try to stay aware of their intense emotional states and the fact that they may appear to be preoccupied with whether or not you are about to leave them.

#25

We are all born with an innate, biological vulnerability to emotions. Some people have many emotions, while others have few emotions. Some people seem to have a balance of emotions.

#26

People with BPD have intense emotions that are difficult to predict and very intense. They struggle in relationships, and they’re intensely afraid that people will leave them.

#27

People with BPD have intense emotions that are difficult to predict and very intense. They struggle in relationships, and they’re intensely afraid that people will leave them.

#28

People with BPD have intense emotions that are difficult to predict and very intense. They struggle in relationships, and they’re intensely afraid that people will leave them.

#29

People with BPD have intense emotions that are difficult to predict and very intense. They struggle in relationships, and they’re intensely afraid that people will leave them.

#30

People with BPD have intense emotions that are difficult to predict and very intense. They struggle in relationships, and they’re intensely afraid that people will leave them.

#31

People with BPD have intense emotions that are difficult to predict and very intense. They struggle in relationships, and they’re intensely afraid that people will leave them.

#32

People with BPD have intense emotions that are difficult to predict and very intense. They struggle in relationships, and they’re intensely afraid that people will leave them. They have a physiologically slow return to baseline emotion.

#33

It is important to understand that emotions are not just fleeting experiences but persistent conditions of being. They stick around until you do something to make them go away.

#34

People with BPD have intense emotions that are difficult to predict and very intense. They struggle in relationships, and they’re intensely afraid that people will leave them.

#35

People with BPD have intense emotions that are difficult to predict and very intense. They struggle in relationships, and they’re intensely afraid that people will leave them. They have a physiologically slow return to baseline emotion.

#36

Emotional vulnerability is the first ingredient in the BPD recipe, and an invalidating environment is the second.

#37

Here are some of the most common invalidating environments that contribute to the BPD cycle. 1. Parents who are not emotionally attuned to their children. 2. Peer groups that reject the child’s emotional needs and behaviors. 3. School environments that deny the child’s emotional needs and behaviors. 4. Family members who are verbally abusive or physically abusive. 5. Parents who are mentally or emotionally unavailable or who demand perfection from their children, especially when they are upset or angry. 6. Parents who don’t know how to help their children cope with their emotions, especially when they get upset or angry. -> People with BPD have intense emotions that are difficult to predict and very intense. They struggle in relationships, and they’re intensely afraid that people will leave them. They have a physiologically slow return to baseline emotion.

#38

Emotional vulnerability is the first ingredient in the BPD recipe, and an invalidating environment is the second.